"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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They Say I'm Hot But I'm Still Always The Friend

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I swear to g-d i'm the damn product of what this site preeches. I have everything but the whole point, girls. I have my s.it together, I have a life, girls tell me i'm hot. I've officially run out of excuses on why I have so much trouble getting with girls.

I know this is sucha basic question, but why am I always the friend even tho im good looking. I don't have anymore excuses, wtf am I doing wrong. I can't say i'm shy, cuz i'm not anymore, I can't say i'm skinny, cuz im not anymore, I can't say i'm sitting home friday nights, cuz im not anymore. I mean everyone thinks i get sooooo many girls, like i look like the kinda guy that would. Guys that dont kno this aspect about me think i can get with pretty much any girl i want.

I can say that im kinda hesistant on making moves, but still, my looks should make up for some of the work. Is is i dont kino enough?, I have no idea at all, its like im trying to fit in the final piece of the puzzle here and from then on im gonna get all the pvssy i want till im sick of it. HELP VIBE WITH ME
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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because you don't make a move on them . duh
 

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SexinEar said:
lol what can be considered a move
Dont play stupid. You said you hesitate making moves. At times i was the same way but i ended up making them. Im an attractive person but i have NO problem gettin women. I have some questions...do you have girls wanting to go out consistantly? do you ever make moves? Explain when it all goes wrong.
 

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you answered the question yourself, you know what you need to do, now do it.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Omg I'm hot and girls won't ask me out help!!one11

How many girl have you approached in the last month?
 

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Girls never admit a guys hott, unless they're going out with you and then they're mostly lying. I've heard "you're hott", but those are ego girls that want to hear it back.
 

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Bling said:
Girls never admit a guys hott, unless they're going out with you and then they're mostly lying. I've heard "you're hott", but those are ego girls that want to hear it back.
No, what are you talking about? Just ask if they think so and so is hot and theyd be more than happy to answer. Ive gotten it before and it wasnt from ego girls that want to hear it back?

So I realised my prob, I can't build any attraction, like i'm always slow and lost on going about it. ugh
 

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You gotta go to them man.Sounds like the ladies my be a little intimidated if your as cool as you say you are,too.Who knows.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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SexinEar said:
No, what are you talking about? Just ask if they think so and so is hot and theyd be more than happy to answer. Ive gotten it before and it wasnt from ego girls that want to hear it back?

So I realised my prob, I can't build any attraction, like i'm always slow and lost on going about it. ugh
ROFL. You're a doofus if you think a girl's going to call you ugly if you're ugly. Of course she'll say to your face you're hott. Behind your back they're saying, he looks desperate and beat. You quite possibly could be the ugliest kid in school. You'll never really know unless you ask girls out *****.
 

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Bling said:
ROFL. You're a doofus if you think a girl's going to call you ugly if you're ugly. Of course she'll say to your face you're hott. Behind your back they're saying, he looks desperate and beat. You quite possibly could be the ugliest kid in school. You'll never really know unless you ask girls out *****.
Allrite allrite, but usally if a girl is saying how a guy looks to his face and hes ugly, they always say hes "cute". I think theres a difference when you got a response like "oh your hot", without even thinking, ya know.
 

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I think you're a panzy and the word they use be it "hot" or "cute" mean nothing. And do they approach you outside of school? Call you up? Want to do something with you? Maybe the feel sorry for you? Make a move and grow a pair. If you get rejected who cares you tried.
 

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Way to revive a dead thread.. -_-

SEXINEAR. Learn to approach and make a move. If you don't know how to do either, find out with a simple search.

YOU are the REASON why you CAN'T ATTACT girls. Find out why for yourself.
 

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agreed with Docs we can give you advice but we cant make the moves for you thats something you have to do yourself and if your an attrative guy like you say you are girls will love it when you make a move theres girls in HS that if a ugly guy grabs her butt that she even knows she will smack him but if some guy she finds really good lookin grabs her ass that she doesnt even know she let him. I can prove this to ya because me and my friend did an experiment because i have a friend that is like you majority of the girls think he is hot but he doesnt make moves but hes problem is lazyness more than anything. But anyways back to the experiment my friend zack was small friends wit this really hot girl we got him to grab her ass he got smacked acually pretty hard too. then later on we sent my friend jeremy to do the same thing to the same girl she almost turned around and smacked him then she saw him and acually grabbed his ass back so. My whole point of that story is if your like you say you are girls will love it if you make moves on them so dont hesitate just do.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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