"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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They Say I'm Hot But I'm Still Always The Friend

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I swear to g-d i'm the damn product of what this site preeches. I have everything but the whole point, girls. I have my s.it together, I have a life, girls tell me i'm hot. I've officially run out of excuses on why I have so much trouble getting with girls.

I know this is sucha basic question, but why am I always the friend even tho im good looking. I don't have anymore excuses, wtf am I doing wrong. I can't say i'm shy, cuz i'm not anymore, I can't say i'm skinny, cuz im not anymore, I can't say i'm sitting home friday nights, cuz im not anymore. I mean everyone thinks i get sooooo many girls, like i look like the kinda guy that would. Guys that dont kno this aspect about me think i can get with pretty much any girl i want.

I can say that im kinda hesistant on making moves, but still, my looks should make up for some of the work. Is is i dont kino enough?, I have no idea at all, its like im trying to fit in the final piece of the puzzle here and from then on im gonna get all the pvssy i want till im sick of it. HELP VIBE WITH ME
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Void

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because you don't make a move on them . duh
 

oakraiderz2

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SexinEar said:
lol what can be considered a move
Dont play stupid. You said you hesitate making moves. At times i was the same way but i ended up making them. Im an attractive person but i have NO problem gettin women. I have some questions...do you have girls wanting to go out consistantly? do you ever make moves? Explain when it all goes wrong.
 

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you answered the question yourself, you know what you need to do, now do it.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Rata Blanca

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Omg I'm hot and girls won't ask me out help!!one11

How many girl have you approached in the last month?
 

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Girls never admit a guys hott, unless they're going out with you and then they're mostly lying. I've heard "you're hott", but those are ego girls that want to hear it back.
 

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Bling said:
Girls never admit a guys hott, unless they're going out with you and then they're mostly lying. I've heard "you're hott", but those are ego girls that want to hear it back.
No, what are you talking about? Just ask if they think so and so is hot and theyd be more than happy to answer. Ive gotten it before and it wasnt from ego girls that want to hear it back?

So I realised my prob, I can't build any attraction, like i'm always slow and lost on going about it. ugh
 

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You gotta go to them man.Sounds like the ladies my be a little intimidated if your as cool as you say you are,too.Who knows.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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SexinEar said:
No, what are you talking about? Just ask if they think so and so is hot and theyd be more than happy to answer. Ive gotten it before and it wasnt from ego girls that want to hear it back?

So I realised my prob, I can't build any attraction, like i'm always slow and lost on going about it. ugh
ROFL. You're a doofus if you think a girl's going to call you ugly if you're ugly. Of course she'll say to your face you're hott. Behind your back they're saying, he looks desperate and beat. You quite possibly could be the ugliest kid in school. You'll never really know unless you ask girls out *****.
 

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Bling said:
ROFL. You're a doofus if you think a girl's going to call you ugly if you're ugly. Of course she'll say to your face you're hott. Behind your back they're saying, he looks desperate and beat. You quite possibly could be the ugliest kid in school. You'll never really know unless you ask girls out *****.
Allrite allrite, but usally if a girl is saying how a guy looks to his face and hes ugly, they always say hes "cute". I think theres a difference when you got a response like "oh your hot", without even thinking, ya know.
 

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I think you're a panzy and the word they use be it "hot" or "cute" mean nothing. And do they approach you outside of school? Call you up? Want to do something with you? Maybe the feel sorry for you? Make a move and grow a pair. If you get rejected who cares you tried.
 

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Way to revive a dead thread.. -_-

SEXINEAR. Learn to approach and make a move. If you don't know how to do either, find out with a simple search.

YOU are the REASON why you CAN'T ATTACT girls. Find out why for yourself.
 

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agreed with Docs we can give you advice but we cant make the moves for you thats something you have to do yourself and if your an attrative guy like you say you are girls will love it when you make a move theres girls in HS that if a ugly guy grabs her butt that she even knows she will smack him but if some guy she finds really good lookin grabs her ass that she doesnt even know she let him. I can prove this to ya because me and my friend did an experiment because i have a friend that is like you majority of the girls think he is hot but he doesnt make moves but hes problem is lazyness more than anything. But anyways back to the experiment my friend zack was small friends wit this really hot girl we got him to grab her ass he got smacked acually pretty hard too. then later on we sent my friend jeremy to do the same thing to the same girl she almost turned around and smacked him then she saw him and acually grabbed his ass back so. My whole point of that story is if your like you say you are girls will love it if you make moves on them so dont hesitate just do.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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