"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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They say "I Have a Boyfriend" When you ask for number....

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SuperChillies

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Some girls are legit...but I think some USe this as an excuse....

what do you do ?

someone on another forum once said "hot girls are always in a relationship some way or other" you have to take them from their half-working or close to ending relationship....
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Heard this problem before...

Say, "Oh, good for you..." (not in a nasty way, just a relaxed tone, but maybe slightly "Somebody woke up on the wrong side of bed")... Then walk off...

If she has emotions and doesn't have a boyfriend she will feel bad about it and be like, "sorry just so many guys *this*, and so many guys *that*."
 
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It can mean a lot of things- she's not interested, it's a test to see if you're a real man or she just likes to use guys for attention. That being said you need to figure out which one it is...there is no real solution but to keep talking and decide if she's interested in you or not. Get the number and call a day or so later - if it isn't a fake and she actually sounds happy you called then you have your answer. :up:
 
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Usually, my response is "Oh, that's good....I'm sure he won't mind if I have your number." or "I'm sure he won't mind if I give you my number."
 
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Phazuka said:
Usually, my response is "Oh, that's good....I'm sure he won't mind if I have your number." or "I'm sure he won't mind if I give you my number."
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I don't think giving your own number ever works.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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So pimp its scary

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Never give a girl your number without getting hers at the same time. It's Uber-lame.

Anyway, if a girl says she has a bf, you didn't get her IL fast enough for her to give her to give your number. Girls will OFTEN forget about their bf's if you got them hooked enough.
 
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Walk away. Period. Because its gonna turn out to be one of three things.

1. She really does have a boyfriend.
2. She's not interested.
3. She's playing games. You don't wanna female that plays games.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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YOU: "What's your phone number?"
HER: "I have a boyfreind."
YOU: "Cool, but I don't need his number, just yours."

Even if she doesnt give it to you, this way you dont let her bring you down.
 
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ValleyDJing said:
Walk away. Period. Because its gonna turn out to be one of three things.

1. She really does have a boyfriend.
2. She's not interested.
3. She's playing games. You don't wanna female that plays games.
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Words of Wisdom!!
 
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