"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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They say "I Have a Boyfriend" When you ask for number....

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Some girls are legit...but I think some USe this as an excuse....

what do you do ?

someone on another forum once said "hot girls are always in a relationship some way or other" you have to take them from their half-working or close to ending relationship....
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Heard this problem before...

Say, "Oh, good for you..." (not in a nasty way, just a relaxed tone, but maybe slightly "Somebody woke up on the wrong side of bed")... Then walk off...

If she has emotions and doesn't have a boyfriend she will feel bad about it and be like, "sorry just so many guys *this*, and so many guys *that*."
 
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It can mean a lot of things- she's not interested, it's a test to see if you're a real man or she just likes to use guys for attention. That being said you need to figure out which one it is...there is no real solution but to keep talking and decide if she's interested in you or not. Get the number and call a day or so later - if it isn't a fake and she actually sounds happy you called then you have your answer. :up:
 
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Usually, my response is "Oh, that's good....I'm sure he won't mind if I have your number." or "I'm sure he won't mind if I give you my number."
 
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Phazuka said:
Usually, my response is "Oh, that's good....I'm sure he won't mind if I have your number." or "I'm sure he won't mind if I give you my number."
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I don't think giving your own number ever works.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Never give a girl your number without getting hers at the same time. It's Uber-lame.

Anyway, if a girl says she has a bf, you didn't get her IL fast enough for her to give her to give your number. Girls will OFTEN forget about their bf's if you got them hooked enough.
 
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Walk away. Period. Because its gonna turn out to be one of three things.

1. She really does have a boyfriend.
2. She's not interested.
3. She's playing games. You don't wanna female that plays games.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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YOU: "What's your phone number?"
HER: "I have a boyfreind."
YOU: "Cool, but I don't need his number, just yours."

Even if she doesnt give it to you, this way you dont let her bring you down.
 
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ValleyDJing said:
Walk away. Period. Because its gonna turn out to be one of three things.

1. She really does have a boyfriend.
2. She's not interested.
3. She's playing games. You don't wanna female that plays games.
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Words of Wisdom!!
 
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