"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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They say "I Have a Boyfriend" When you ask for number....

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SuperChillies

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Some girls are legit...but I think some USe this as an excuse....

what do you do ?

someone on another forum once said "hot girls are always in a relationship some way or other" you have to take them from their half-working or close to ending relationship....
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Heard this problem before...

Say, "Oh, good for you..." (not in a nasty way, just a relaxed tone, but maybe slightly "Somebody woke up on the wrong side of bed")... Then walk off...

If she has emotions and doesn't have a boyfriend she will feel bad about it and be like, "sorry just so many guys *this*, and so many guys *that*."
 
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It can mean a lot of things- she's not interested, it's a test to see if you're a real man or she just likes to use guys for attention. That being said you need to figure out which one it is...there is no real solution but to keep talking and decide if she's interested in you or not. Get the number and call a day or so later - if it isn't a fake and she actually sounds happy you called then you have your answer. :up:
 
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Usually, my response is "Oh, that's good....I'm sure he won't mind if I have your number." or "I'm sure he won't mind if I give you my number."
 
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Phazuka said:
Usually, my response is "Oh, that's good....I'm sure he won't mind if I have your number." or "I'm sure he won't mind if I give you my number."
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I don't think giving your own number ever works.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Never give a girl your number without getting hers at the same time. It's Uber-lame.

Anyway, if a girl says she has a bf, you didn't get her IL fast enough for her to give her to give your number. Girls will OFTEN forget about their bf's if you got them hooked enough.
 
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Walk away. Period. Because its gonna turn out to be one of three things.

1. She really does have a boyfriend.
2. She's not interested.
3. She's playing games. You don't wanna female that plays games.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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YOU: "What's your phone number?"
HER: "I have a boyfreind."
YOU: "Cool, but I don't need his number, just yours."

Even if she doesnt give it to you, this way you dont let her bring you down.
 
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ValleyDJing said:
Walk away. Period. Because its gonna turn out to be one of three things.

1. She really does have a boyfriend.
2. She's not interested.
3. She's playing games. You don't wanna female that plays games.
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Words of Wisdom!!
 
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