"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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they say go on drink dates till you have sex..but isn't 3 drink dates in a row boring

pete101

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i read on here you should go for drink dates involving alcohol every time so she has an excuse to blame the alcohol for sleeping with you.. but if you dont get it the first date should you go for a 2nd date at bar and 3rd as well if you haven't had sex yet?

isn't that boring doing the same thing every time in the eyes of the girl i mean.. or is that perfectly fine?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Fatal Jay

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If she is interested in you with high value, then no she would not get bored.
 

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Just invite her over to your house already man. Tell her you've got a funny DVD and some alcohol and ask her over for a movie night.
 

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I wouldn't do three drink dates in a row unless she initiates one of them. Mix it up. I would get bored if I did three drink dates in a row.
 

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pete101 said:
i read on here you should go for drink dates involving alcohol every time so she has an excuse to blame the alcohol for sleeping with you.. but if you dont get it the first date should you go for a 2nd date at bar and 3rd as well if you haven't had sex yet?

isn't that boring doing the same thing every time in the eyes of the girl i mean.. or is that perfectly fine?
apart from the having drinks part of the deal, what have you done to escalte the sex part? have you made a move? have you been increasingly sexual, suggestive, touching kissing? if you have and she hasnt responded, move on, if you havent, you have probably missed your window
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Zarky

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If you're not getting laid by the first or, at latest, second date these days, you're doing something wrong.
 

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I have never seen a post saying KEEP DOING DRINKS DATES!

I see plenty of posts with ideas for other things. And plenty of people advocate action dates. Drinks are ok for one, but you HAVE to mix it up at least a lil bit man!
 
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If you are looking to get intimate with this woman, everything you do should be leading up to sex. It never works going from first base to fυck. Sex has to progress naturally from the very first date. You have to escalate and see how far it takes you. Women who want to fυck you will make it easy for you to f[FONT=&quot]υck them.

With that said, invite her over for some Moscato and a movie.

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right on. Until you're banging her, and want to make her your girlfriend, you shouldn't be taking her out on elaborate dates at all.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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