"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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they say go on drink dates till you have sex..but isn't 3 drink dates in a row boring

pete101

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i read on here you should go for drink dates involving alcohol every time so she has an excuse to blame the alcohol for sleeping with you.. but if you dont get it the first date should you go for a 2nd date at bar and 3rd as well if you haven't had sex yet?

isn't that boring doing the same thing every time in the eyes of the girl i mean.. or is that perfectly fine?
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Fatal Jay

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If she is interested in you with high value, then no she would not get bored.
 

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Just invite her over to your house already man. Tell her you've got a funny DVD and some alcohol and ask her over for a movie night.
 

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I wouldn't do three drink dates in a row unless she initiates one of them. Mix it up. I would get bored if I did three drink dates in a row.
 

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pete101 said:
i read on here you should go for drink dates involving alcohol every time so she has an excuse to blame the alcohol for sleeping with you.. but if you dont get it the first date should you go for a 2nd date at bar and 3rd as well if you haven't had sex yet?

isn't that boring doing the same thing every time in the eyes of the girl i mean.. or is that perfectly fine?
apart from the having drinks part of the deal, what have you done to escalte the sex part? have you made a move? have you been increasingly sexual, suggestive, touching kissing? if you have and she hasnt responded, move on, if you havent, you have probably missed your window
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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If you're not getting laid by the first or, at latest, second date these days, you're doing something wrong.
 

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I have never seen a post saying KEEP DOING DRINKS DATES!

I see plenty of posts with ideas for other things. And plenty of people advocate action dates. Drinks are ok for one, but you HAVE to mix it up at least a lil bit man!
 
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If you are looking to get intimate with this woman, everything you do should be leading up to sex. It never works going from first base to fυck. Sex has to progress naturally from the very first date. You have to escalate and see how far it takes you. Women who want to fυck you will make it easy for you to f[FONT=&quot]υck them.

With that said, invite her over for some Moscato and a movie.

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right on. Until you're banging her, and want to make her your girlfriend, you shouldn't be taking her out on elaborate dates at all.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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