"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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they really want you to be a leader!

frivolousz21

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things Ive learned!

in an LTR she wants you to be a leader....

in all ways..whatever you can think of.

even your mood affects a girl that loves you.



be a leader at all times..but also listen and take her suggestions as much as applicable
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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BuckwildNYC

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You are %100 right about this. That's one thing I've noticed about all men who are successful with women is that they are good leaders. My one friend who has tons of chicks is always the first guy up to the door at a club talking to the promoter seeing how we are getting in. He's always in the lead of our crew and the girls just gravitate toward him. I guess a leader and a DJ basically need the same qualites to be successful.

Sucks for me cause I'm a follower lol. I don't like to be responsible and I don't like to make decisions. I think this has put a major dent in my game. Girls just want to go along with the ride that you provide for them. And if your ride ain't interesting they are getting off at the next stop.
 

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if you are not helped by my post..then why bother posting in it?
 

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Frivolous you couldnt lead a troop of brownies.

Instead of regurgitating no brainers and pretending your enlightening us just bump a tip up eh?
Yeah, dude, no need to say that. This is a good tip that some guys (such as myself) tend to forget.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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