"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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they really want you to be a leader!

frivolousz21

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things Ive learned!

in an LTR she wants you to be a leader....

in all ways..whatever you can think of.

even your mood affects a girl that loves you.



be a leader at all times..but also listen and take her suggestions as much as applicable
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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BuckwildNYC

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You are %100 right about this. That's one thing I've noticed about all men who are successful with women is that they are good leaders. My one friend who has tons of chicks is always the first guy up to the door at a club talking to the promoter seeing how we are getting in. He's always in the lead of our crew and the girls just gravitate toward him. I guess a leader and a DJ basically need the same qualites to be successful.

Sucks for me cause I'm a follower lol. I don't like to be responsible and I don't like to make decisions. I think this has put a major dent in my game. Girls just want to go along with the ride that you provide for them. And if your ride ain't interesting they are getting off at the next stop.
 

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if you are not helped by my post..then why bother posting in it?
 

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Frivolous you couldnt lead a troop of brownies.

Instead of regurgitating no brainers and pretending your enlightening us just bump a tip up eh?
Yeah, dude, no need to say that. This is a good tip that some guys (such as myself) tend to forget.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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