"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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they really want you to be a leader!

frivolousz21

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things Ive learned!

in an LTR she wants you to be a leader....

in all ways..whatever you can think of.

even your mood affects a girl that loves you.



be a leader at all times..but also listen and take her suggestions as much as applicable
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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BuckwildNYC

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You are %100 right about this. That's one thing I've noticed about all men who are successful with women is that they are good leaders. My one friend who has tons of chicks is always the first guy up to the door at a club talking to the promoter seeing how we are getting in. He's always in the lead of our crew and the girls just gravitate toward him. I guess a leader and a DJ basically need the same qualites to be successful.

Sucks for me cause I'm a follower lol. I don't like to be responsible and I don't like to make decisions. I think this has put a major dent in my game. Girls just want to go along with the ride that you provide for them. And if your ride ain't interesting they are getting off at the next stop.
 

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if you are not helped by my post..then why bother posting in it?
 

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Frivolous you couldnt lead a troop of brownies.

Instead of regurgitating no brainers and pretending your enlightening us just bump a tip up eh?
Yeah, dude, no need to say that. This is a good tip that some guys (such as myself) tend to forget.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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