"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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They now have divorce loans.. The world is unreal these days

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Not that easy either. Dudes, in general, want a family and kids. Most females will not give that to the dude without a marriage. So, either way, the dude will eventually lose something and get screwed. The only way to minimize this is to have an iron-clad pre-nup, and if they have assets, an iron-clad irrevocable trust. I had to offer something in mine, so I offered to split the co-mingled account 50/50 (never used it, 80% her money), and should we purchase a place together, that would be split equitably. This never happened either, as she never had the funds for the half down deposit. I get everything else separate and stated that separate funds and assets would remain separate unless either part co-mingled those funds. It really wasn't one sided, but it can be viewed that it was slanted towards me since I had more assets. However, since she made more money, no court would see it that way. She was also responsible for her own legal costs to review the pre-nup and cohabitation agreement too. So, if it didn't work out, which it didn't, I lost were the legal fees from the divorce and the wedding gifts. Since I took the large checks to reimburse myself for the wedding expenses, I really did okay. Just the stress from dealing with these lawyers was unreal. Again, in general, dudes do not want to hurt the wife, but the wife wants the husband to suffer. There are legal ways to make sure the financial and legal pain is minimal. However, one would hope to try and not hurt the other person.
I think the best approach is going scorched earth. If the law and divorce courts come after you, leave. Set up a trust fund for the kid. Write. Do a blog. Do something else not follow the beaten path.

It's a western thing. It's not the norm globally for women to want to act a fool. Violence occurs and has been evident in several incidents globally during lock down. Many religions suggest not holding back if a wife is put of line.

Not doing it right here.
 

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I didn't think that you were learning game from Geoffrey Miller. Geoffrey Miller did write a game book with Tucker Max.
Lmfao? Really. That's hilarious.

Rollo beat alpha God to death. It was trash. Don't waste your breathe nor time on it. It was written by a make feminist and looked text book gender politics. Very soy!
 

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I didn't think that you were learning game from Geoffrey Miller. Geoffrey Miller did write a game book with Tucker Max.
Lmfao? Really. That's hilarious.

Rollo beat alpha God to death. It was trash. Don't waste your breathe nor time on it. It was written by a make feminist and looked text book gender politics. Very soy!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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