"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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They now have divorce loans.. The world is unreal these days

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Not that easy either. Dudes, in general, want a family and kids. Most females will not give that to the dude without a marriage. So, either way, the dude will eventually lose something and get screwed. The only way to minimize this is to have an iron-clad pre-nup, and if they have assets, an iron-clad irrevocable trust. I had to offer something in mine, so I offered to split the co-mingled account 50/50 (never used it, 80% her money), and should we purchase a place together, that would be split equitably. This never happened either, as she never had the funds for the half down deposit. I get everything else separate and stated that separate funds and assets would remain separate unless either part co-mingled those funds. It really wasn't one sided, but it can be viewed that it was slanted towards me since I had more assets. However, since she made more money, no court would see it that way. She was also responsible for her own legal costs to review the pre-nup and cohabitation agreement too. So, if it didn't work out, which it didn't, I lost were the legal fees from the divorce and the wedding gifts. Since I took the large checks to reimburse myself for the wedding expenses, I really did okay. Just the stress from dealing with these lawyers was unreal. Again, in general, dudes do not want to hurt the wife, but the wife wants the husband to suffer. There are legal ways to make sure the financial and legal pain is minimal. However, one would hope to try and not hurt the other person.
I think the best approach is going scorched earth. If the law and divorce courts come after you, leave. Set up a trust fund for the kid. Write. Do a blog. Do something else not follow the beaten path.

It's a western thing. It's not the norm globally for women to want to act a fool. Violence occurs and has been evident in several incidents globally during lock down. Many religions suggest not holding back if a wife is put of line.

Not doing it right here.
 

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I didn't think that you were learning game from Geoffrey Miller. Geoffrey Miller did write a game book with Tucker Max.
Lmfao? Really. That's hilarious.

Rollo beat alpha God to death. It was trash. Don't waste your breathe nor time on it. It was written by a make feminist and looked text book gender politics. Very soy!
 

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I didn't think that you were learning game from Geoffrey Miller. Geoffrey Miller did write a game book with Tucker Max.
Lmfao? Really. That's hilarious.

Rollo beat alpha God to death. It was trash. Don't waste your breathe nor time on it. It was written by a make feminist and looked text book gender politics. Very soy!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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