OK U all know the situation, U been seducing a chic online, seen all her lovely pics then comes the big meeting. U are ready to finally meet the hottie U been seducing in the virtual world of the internet.........then the closer you look at them the more you relize "THEY WERE A LOT CUTER ONLINE" some may even experience a weight gain of 30-200 lbs. Now WHAT.........U realize they were lying, they exagerated, or used a out-dated picture. Not the best way to start out. You should know that people try to put their best photo up to reap the most benefits,a glamour shot will be the best they ever looked, in reality they rarely live up to that picture. I mean why would anyone upload a bad picture. There are some PRO-ACTIVE approaches to avoid meeting someone that is not whU thought they were. Lets take a looksy at some scenarios.
A) PICTURE PERFECT-dont get all wrapped up on just one picture, realize that not everyone photographs well or looks exactly like their picture. Lets face it the stats reveal........(41% look similar, 49% look WORSE, only 10% look better in person). So be realistic, stop being so excited over superficial qualities, I found a lot of hotties tend to be shallow and lack substance.
SOLUTION:ask how recent that pic was taken, ask if anthing has changed since that pic was taken, have they lost or gained 200 lbs, ask for another picture, ask is that really, Beauty IS COMMON, what else that got.
B) BUDDA FACE-if they got lots of face pics but all the body pics are faded, out of foucs, cropped, tiny, etc odds are they are packing a few extra pounds.
SOLUTION-ask if they have any other pics, ask why no body pics-you would be surprised how many are honest. Take a closer look at their upper arms (are they fat n flabby), look how round tgheir face is, look at their height stats.
C)IS THIS YOU-not sure if it's even them, too good to be true.
SOLUTION: opt to take it to a web cam. It's hard to hide on live feeds.
D) NO PICTURE-there is a ton of reasons why no pictures a few are legit.
SOLUTION-ask them to send one to you privately, tell them to do it in a chat room, IM conversation, cell phone.
E) CSI THE PIC-to avoid meeting a fraud or undesireable, enlarge their picture, take a look at the background, why are they posing, notice details about things in the picture. Lots of people alter their picture in photo-shop or other digital enhancements, some look better in black and white, don't be fooled by them posing seductively on a bed or wearing skimpy bikini's this is to entice you. Do a comparison-put photos side by side, ask them questions about the photo (when was that taken, where, whats that in the background, which one is you, do U still look like that, whats changed since then). Your goal is to get an accurate rendition of what they look like today.
always remember certain people want to meet the hottie in that photo.........shallow, superficial YES but the physical attraction has to be there first.
So what do U do if YOU are not all that and a bag chips-some people just dont photograph well. U could opt to get a professional photographer or just do some basics (cropping, shadow effects, contrast, try black n white)> Your goal here is to take the attention off of your shortcomings.
-include you with friends, other women, actions shots, dark clothes, cool props in background. Lots of computer enhancements, pic trix to make U look aceptable.
-focus on your attributes in your profile. Write an amazing profile, design killer emails, sculpt your personality, develop your sense of humor, have solid phone game, find contentness with inner beauty.
A) PICTURE PERFECT-dont get all wrapped up on just one picture, realize that not everyone photographs well or looks exactly like their picture. Lets face it the stats reveal........(41% look similar, 49% look WORSE, only 10% look better in person). So be realistic, stop being so excited over superficial qualities, I found a lot of hotties tend to be shallow and lack substance.
SOLUTION:ask how recent that pic was taken, ask if anthing has changed since that pic was taken, have they lost or gained 200 lbs, ask for another picture, ask is that really, Beauty IS COMMON, what else that got.
B) BUDDA FACE-if they got lots of face pics but all the body pics are faded, out of foucs, cropped, tiny, etc odds are they are packing a few extra pounds.
SOLUTION-ask if they have any other pics, ask why no body pics-you would be surprised how many are honest. Take a closer look at their upper arms (are they fat n flabby), look how round tgheir face is, look at their height stats.
C)IS THIS YOU-not sure if it's even them, too good to be true.
SOLUTION: opt to take it to a web cam. It's hard to hide on live feeds.
D) NO PICTURE-there is a ton of reasons why no pictures a few are legit.
SOLUTION-ask them to send one to you privately, tell them to do it in a chat room, IM conversation, cell phone.
E) CSI THE PIC-to avoid meeting a fraud or undesireable, enlarge their picture, take a look at the background, why are they posing, notice details about things in the picture. Lots of people alter their picture in photo-shop or other digital enhancements, some look better in black and white, don't be fooled by them posing seductively on a bed or wearing skimpy bikini's this is to entice you. Do a comparison-put photos side by side, ask them questions about the photo (when was that taken, where, whats that in the background, which one is you, do U still look like that, whats changed since then). Your goal is to get an accurate rendition of what they look like today.
always remember certain people want to meet the hottie in that photo.........shallow, superficial YES but the physical attraction has to be there first.
So what do U do if YOU are not all that and a bag chips-some people just dont photograph well. U could opt to get a professional photographer or just do some basics (cropping, shadow effects, contrast, try black n white)> Your goal here is to take the attention off of your shortcomings.
-include you with friends, other women, actions shots, dark clothes, cool props in background. Lots of computer enhancements, pic trix to make U look aceptable.
-focus on your attributes in your profile. Write an amazing profile, design killer emails, sculpt your personality, develop your sense of humor, have solid phone game, find contentness with inner beauty.