"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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They always come back....

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First my ex and now a f uck buddy that ghosted me for a month. I asked her out and she didn't reply. Now she says that she missed my text and am I doing ok. I think she found new d ick and it didnt work out for some reason. Now she wants me back.

I am down with that. It was good no strings attached sex. If she finds another and leaves again it's no big deal.

Good thing about her is she gives me a BJ before we go out. Then when we get back from our outing we have s ex. She does what ever I ask.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Lead them physically, fvck them right, don't be needy/desperate/insecure/abusive and AGREE with them as if stop seeing each other is no big deal if she goes into the "talk".......

And they come back. Normally when you have more chicks than time or you start getting semi serious with another one. Typically after you realize it didn't work and that there are better women than her.....that's when they come back.
 
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dustmuffin said:
First my ex and now a f uck buddy that ghosted me for a month.
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same has happened to me in the last 72 hours its magical isnt it.....> Ex is still social media friends with me i have no problem with this
she has tried everything to get me bk in her orbit, Pics of us/memories, Liking my Pics etc etc trying to get me to initiate convo like the old courtous nice guy i was

The Power of DOING NOTHING MEN and remaining cool calm and collective

OP has the output
 
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Happened to me too in the last 72h.
An old FWB contacted me to the day exactly I ghosted on her a year ago 29 january.
I was on her mind a lot she told me.
NC works.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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you dont ask her her to kiss you

you dont say youd like to kiss her

you show her with your actions by pulling her in close and kissing her lips

1 of 2 things will happen shell reciprocate...............or 2 shell pull away..... if the latter you remain UNAFFECTED brush it off with

"the rumours must be true about you being a lousy kisser then"............................(obvs smerk whilst your saying it)
 
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OP clearly knows the score.
 
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A blow job and then sex soon after ?.... Damn...I miss being young... lol
 
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A lot of the time they don’t come back.

If they do come back it’s because tinder has dried up or Chad is now bored of her.

Either way you do not want some stretched out, pummelled, rejection pvssy.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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