"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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these last couple of months i've improved so much...BUT

quest

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but theres a problem..

i'm always scoring girls who aren't dating material..
either, nice face, but a little to big, or nice waist but a little to ugly..
there has been a couple of dateable ones, for sure.
but there is one who i'm after, who i realise i'm holding myself back, because of lack of confidence (in my looks)..
she's banging, really, a 9. mad body, nice face, nice skin etc..
she's also a, good girl? - not a slut.
now, i haven't got her on TOO much of a pedastool, and as far as she knows, not at all..
i have never sms'd her or rang her unless its been for something she's instagated.
i've only seen her 3 times. slept next to her twice, kind of at her invite, much kino done. and in rhetrospect, i'm so disapointed in myself for not kissing her during these times.

she and her friend, took me and my friend to a club last saturday and we pretty much ignored them, talking to other girls etc. (i kiss closed a girl, but HB9 doesnt know that :))..

well they sms'd me, and said where are we? by that time we were out getting fish and chips, + talking to 3 banging girls, who we had laughing and ****..

now she's calling me a womaniser (in fun) but was quite annoyed that they came and took us out and we barely spoke with them..

what can i do to get over my nerves with the fine women..? i'm going to take up kick boxing now to get back into some proper shape, + in march when i go back to uni i'll get properly into gym again.. (i have a pretty bad body, pot belly, skinny chest, decent, but no better then decent biceps..)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Why should I offer advice to a person that is "confident" on scoring girls who "aren't dating material."
 

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You've got a nasty case of the Oneitis, bro.


Not much we can offer besides either pull your head out and score with her, or move on and forget about her.


You will obsess and become square 1 AFC.


Its your choice.
 

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Originally posted by DeathDealer
Why should I offer advice to a person that is "confident" on scoring girls who "aren't dating material."
because i need it :)

well, what i mean is, i do all my scoring at night clubs..
the types of girls i score with are skanky, low confident, easy pickups..

occasionally one will pop up who is dating material, and i'll date them :), or attempt to.
but i want to land HB8+'s all the time.. i'm not.. prob 6's and 7's all the time.. but then when they are hot hot, i crumble..
 

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Originally posted by Andromax
You've got a nasty case of the Oneitis, bro.


Not much we can offer besides either pull your head out and score with her, or move on and forget about her.


You will obsess and become square 1 AFC.


Its your choice.
dammit.. it aint oneitis.. its just one particular one i've laid ground work with and would like to bang..
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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