"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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these last couple of months i've improved so much...BUT

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but theres a problem..

i'm always scoring girls who aren't dating material..
either, nice face, but a little to big, or nice waist but a little to ugly..
there has been a couple of dateable ones, for sure.
but there is one who i'm after, who i realise i'm holding myself back, because of lack of confidence (in my looks)..
she's banging, really, a 9. mad body, nice face, nice skin etc..
she's also a, good girl? - not a slut.
now, i haven't got her on TOO much of a pedastool, and as far as she knows, not at all..
i have never sms'd her or rang her unless its been for something she's instagated.
i've only seen her 3 times. slept next to her twice, kind of at her invite, much kino done. and in rhetrospect, i'm so disapointed in myself for not kissing her during these times.

she and her friend, took me and my friend to a club last saturday and we pretty much ignored them, talking to other girls etc. (i kiss closed a girl, but HB9 doesnt know that :))..

well they sms'd me, and said where are we? by that time we were out getting fish and chips, + talking to 3 banging girls, who we had laughing and ****..

now she's calling me a womaniser (in fun) but was quite annoyed that they came and took us out and we barely spoke with them..

what can i do to get over my nerves with the fine women..? i'm going to take up kick boxing now to get back into some proper shape, + in march when i go back to uni i'll get properly into gym again.. (i have a pretty bad body, pot belly, skinny chest, decent, but no better then decent biceps..)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Why should I offer advice to a person that is "confident" on scoring girls who "aren't dating material."
 

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You've got a nasty case of the Oneitis, bro.


Not much we can offer besides either pull your head out and score with her, or move on and forget about her.


You will obsess and become square 1 AFC.


Its your choice.
 

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Originally posted by DeathDealer
Why should I offer advice to a person that is "confident" on scoring girls who "aren't dating material."
because i need it :)

well, what i mean is, i do all my scoring at night clubs..
the types of girls i score with are skanky, low confident, easy pickups..

occasionally one will pop up who is dating material, and i'll date them :), or attempt to.
but i want to land HB8+'s all the time.. i'm not.. prob 6's and 7's all the time.. but then when they are hot hot, i crumble..
 

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Originally posted by Andromax
You've got a nasty case of the Oneitis, bro.


Not much we can offer besides either pull your head out and score with her, or move on and forget about her.


You will obsess and become square 1 AFC.


Its your choice.
dammit.. it aint oneitis.. its just one particular one i've laid ground work with and would like to bang..
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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