"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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these last couple of months i've improved so much...BUT

quest

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but theres a problem..

i'm always scoring girls who aren't dating material..
either, nice face, but a little to big, or nice waist but a little to ugly..
there has been a couple of dateable ones, for sure.
but there is one who i'm after, who i realise i'm holding myself back, because of lack of confidence (in my looks)..
she's banging, really, a 9. mad body, nice face, nice skin etc..
she's also a, good girl? - not a slut.
now, i haven't got her on TOO much of a pedastool, and as far as she knows, not at all..
i have never sms'd her or rang her unless its been for something she's instagated.
i've only seen her 3 times. slept next to her twice, kind of at her invite, much kino done. and in rhetrospect, i'm so disapointed in myself for not kissing her during these times.

she and her friend, took me and my friend to a club last saturday and we pretty much ignored them, talking to other girls etc. (i kiss closed a girl, but HB9 doesnt know that :))..

well they sms'd me, and said where are we? by that time we were out getting fish and chips, + talking to 3 banging girls, who we had laughing and ****..

now she's calling me a womaniser (in fun) but was quite annoyed that they came and took us out and we barely spoke with them..

what can i do to get over my nerves with the fine women..? i'm going to take up kick boxing now to get back into some proper shape, + in march when i go back to uni i'll get properly into gym again.. (i have a pretty bad body, pot belly, skinny chest, decent, but no better then decent biceps..)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Why should I offer advice to a person that is "confident" on scoring girls who "aren't dating material."
 

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You've got a nasty case of the Oneitis, bro.


Not much we can offer besides either pull your head out and score with her, or move on and forget about her.


You will obsess and become square 1 AFC.


Its your choice.
 

quest

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Originally posted by DeathDealer
Why should I offer advice to a person that is "confident" on scoring girls who "aren't dating material."
because i need it :)

well, what i mean is, i do all my scoring at night clubs..
the types of girls i score with are skanky, low confident, easy pickups..

occasionally one will pop up who is dating material, and i'll date them :), or attempt to.
but i want to land HB8+'s all the time.. i'm not.. prob 6's and 7's all the time.. but then when they are hot hot, i crumble..
 

quest

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Originally posted by Andromax
You've got a nasty case of the Oneitis, bro.


Not much we can offer besides either pull your head out and score with her, or move on and forget about her.


You will obsess and become square 1 AFC.


Its your choice.
dammit.. it aint oneitis.. its just one particular one i've laid ground work with and would like to bang..
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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