"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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these certain events tend to change us

foomee

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i've noticed that almost everyone changes or is heavily influenced by a certain event that happens within our lives. whether it be your ex cheating on you, or a girl saying "let's just be friends", or maybe even a girl just dumps you for your friend. either way, i'd just like to point out that i'm glad these things/events happen to everyone, because we all learn from experience and without this shi* happening to us, we would never change. tonight something happened to me which i'm not really in the mood to talk about, but i'm glad it happened, i'm glad i realized the truth, and i'm glad that i'm changing because of it. anyways, i'd just like to say that nothing is ever going to happen unless you guys get out there and actually try, fail, and learn from your mistakes... that's just how life is and that's the only way you'll get anywhere. so go out there, have fun and fail at life because you'll just get back up again and improve yourself and you'll realize and be very thankful for each and everything that happens to you!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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amen
 

ducaro

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you are just 20?! you seem to know more stuff than an average 25 year old!
godspeed to you
 
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