"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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these certain events tend to change us

foomee

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i've noticed that almost everyone changes or is heavily influenced by a certain event that happens within our lives. whether it be your ex cheating on you, or a girl saying "let's just be friends", or maybe even a girl just dumps you for your friend. either way, i'd just like to point out that i'm glad these things/events happen to everyone, because we all learn from experience and without this shi* happening to us, we would never change. tonight something happened to me which i'm not really in the mood to talk about, but i'm glad it happened, i'm glad i realized the truth, and i'm glad that i'm changing because of it. anyways, i'd just like to say that nothing is ever going to happen unless you guys get out there and actually try, fail, and learn from your mistakes... that's just how life is and that's the only way you'll get anywhere. so go out there, have fun and fail at life because you'll just get back up again and improve yourself and you'll realize and be very thankful for each and everything that happens to you!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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amen
 

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you are just 20?! you seem to know more stuff than an average 25 year old!
godspeed to you
 
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