"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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There's This Girl I Like In My Class, How Do I Talk To Her?

Dark Horse

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I had first day of class last thursday and our class meets only once a week so I will be seeing her tomorrow.

I don't know her, I don't know anything about her. I only know that she's single because I looked her up on Facebook.

My plan is to get there 10 minutes early and talk to her, but I don't know how to start up a conversation with this girl or what to say.

How do I talk to her? What should I say to start up the conversation? Any tips would be helpful
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Derek Flint

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Slow down.
Start off by smiling at her when she passes by.

Then start saying "hi" or similar.

Unless she is giving you IOI's, start small and work up to a level where she responds to the above and go from there.
 

RangerMIke

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Hey I was creeping on you through Facebook and I'm wondering, do you want to see my penis
LOL!!!!!

I wouldn't recommend this, but.... you might be surprised if you have good body language and can deliver this line in a funny way, it might work. The key is to EXPECT she will think it's funny. I guarantee she will not forget you, and you will illicit an emotional response. Truth is doing this is better than doing nothing.

Okay... in all seriousness. You already have built in rapport, talk to her about class, and invite he out for coffee. Take it from there.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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