"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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There's This Girl I Like In My Class, How Do I Talk To Her?

Dark Horse

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I had first day of class last thursday and our class meets only once a week so I will be seeing her tomorrow.

I don't know her, I don't know anything about her. I only know that she's single because I looked her up on Facebook.

My plan is to get there 10 minutes early and talk to her, but I don't know how to start up a conversation with this girl or what to say.

How do I talk to her? What should I say to start up the conversation? Any tips would be helpful
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Derek Flint

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Slow down.
Start off by smiling at her when she passes by.

Then start saying "hi" or similar.

Unless she is giving you IOI's, start small and work up to a level where she responds to the above and go from there.
 

RangerMIke

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Hey I was creeping on you through Facebook and I'm wondering, do you want to see my penis
LOL!!!!!

I wouldn't recommend this, but.... you might be surprised if you have good body language and can deliver this line in a funny way, it might work. The key is to EXPECT she will think it's funny. I guarantee she will not forget you, and you will illicit an emotional response. Truth is doing this is better than doing nothing.

Okay... in all seriousness. You already have built in rapport, talk to her about class, and invite he out for coffee. Take it from there.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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