"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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theres some girl harassing me at my moms job

sosousage

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its annoying as hell

i dont even know her, she knows my mom (works with her) and knows my brother


now she talks chit about me for last half year and its really really annoying.


i dont even know her thats the funniest part. i checked her FB and she looks like 1/10 seriously. im early 20s shes early 30s.


not sure what to do about this bullying.

im thinking of confronting her and her parents about it what you guys think?

funny that 30yo women behave like 10yo
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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With a little research online you can write up a CEASE and DESIST letter and tell her to stop her DEFAMATION OF CHARACTER or you will take legal action. Then you send it to her attention at work via Certified USMail with the option that she must sign for it herself directly from the mail carrier. You'd be surprised how fast her little hyena chopper mouth will stop after you do this. I'm actually getting ready to draft one for a recent ex who I thought I parted ways with peacefully but just this past weekend I learned otherwise. She is talking some smack about me that is unacceptable and its getting back to my ex wife who I have a great parenting relationship with and I don't appreciate it. The most important part though is that if you draft one of these and the sh|t continues, you have to be willing to go through with it and actually sue her. The courts will take these cases seriously I have done it before. But 95% of the time the letter will stop it.
 
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