“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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There Will Be...Gossip?

Badladman

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I'm going to post this in here due to my age.

To start it off real original, there's this good looking girl that I know :p. She works with me, but I don't know her very well. I feel shes interested in me, but I can never really find a chance to go and talk to her, because we usually work in different sections, and she doesn't work as often as me. I usually see her a couple times a week, 3 times max. What to say to her isn't really a problem, but I just seem to never get the chance. Also, anyone at work that hears about any flirting going on, it spreads like wildfire, and everyone's on your case. It's not a big deal, but I just don't want a bunch of people to get nosy about my personal life. Soo, I really don't got a good grasp of how I should handle this situation, so any advice would be greatly appreciated!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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jeffthechef

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next time there's no customers or you're off duty

go up to her and say hi
and talk

people are going to find out eventually...people are naturally curious...people always slow down on the freeway when there's an accident...even a small one...they see a cop car pulled over tlaking to someone...they slow down...people ask questions

just gotta deal with it
 

Yookiwooki

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Everyone is eventually going to know everything that you ever do with anyone in your community. At least that's what I've seen in High School. You have to accept that, because its really not that big of a deal.
 

Badladman

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No no no... Having them know is not the problem. I wouldn't care less if they knew, but if rumor goes around, the managers might get pissed. Last time someone hooked up with their coworkers, they got fired. And I'm not planning to lose my job anytime soon.
 

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Badladman said:
No no no... Having them know is not the problem. I wouldn't care less if they knew, but if rumor goes around, the managers might get pissed. Last time someone hooked up with their coworkers, they got fired. And I'm not planning to lose my job anytime soon.
Well, life is about risk. Is this chick worth that risk that the managers might find out, get pissed, and possibly fire you?

It's up to you to decide that (which I think lies at the base of your question)!

For what to do, I agree, when you're off duty stop by if she's working strike up a conversation, she'll obviously know who you are so it shouldn't be a problem. Just apply C&F and be on your way.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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