"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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There Will Be...Gossip?

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I'm going to post this in here due to my age.

To start it off real original, there's this good looking girl that I know :p. She works with me, but I don't know her very well. I feel shes interested in me, but I can never really find a chance to go and talk to her, because we usually work in different sections, and she doesn't work as often as me. I usually see her a couple times a week, 3 times max. What to say to her isn't really a problem, but I just seem to never get the chance. Also, anyone at work that hears about any flirting going on, it spreads like wildfire, and everyone's on your case. It's not a big deal, but I just don't want a bunch of people to get nosy about my personal life. Soo, I really don't got a good grasp of how I should handle this situation, so any advice would be greatly appreciated!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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next time there's no customers or you're off duty

go up to her and say hi
and talk

people are going to find out eventually...people are naturally curious...people always slow down on the freeway when there's an accident...even a small one...they see a cop car pulled over tlaking to someone...they slow down...people ask questions

just gotta deal with it
 
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Everyone is eventually going to know everything that you ever do with anyone in your community. At least that's what I've seen in High School. You have to accept that, because its really not that big of a deal.
 
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No no no... Having them know is not the problem. I wouldn't care less if they knew, but if rumor goes around, the managers might get pissed. Last time someone hooked up with their coworkers, they got fired. And I'm not planning to lose my job anytime soon.
 
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Badladman said:
No no no... Having them know is not the problem. I wouldn't care less if they knew, but if rumor goes around, the managers might get pissed. Last time someone hooked up with their coworkers, they got fired. And I'm not planning to lose my job anytime soon.
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Well, life is about risk. Is this chick worth that risk that the managers might find out, get pissed, and possibly fire you?

It's up to you to decide that (which I think lies at the base of your question)!

For what to do, I agree, when you're off duty stop by if she's working strike up a conversation, she'll obviously know who you are so it shouldn't be a problem. Just apply C&F and be on your way.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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