I was chatting to a group of girls from one of my social networks and we were talking about how we perceived each other. All the girls unanimously agreed I was a 'rainbow' or a 'rainbow of positivity'. For some reason this has been playing on my mind and I do not know how to take it. Is this necessarily a bad thing in the scheme of everything here?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
There take on my personality: a rainbow of positivity
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