I was chatting to a group of girls from one of my social networks and we were talking about how we perceived each other. All the girls unanimously agreed I was a 'rainbow' or a 'rainbow of positivity'. For some reason this has been playing on my mind and I do not know how to take it. Is this necessarily a bad thing in the scheme of everything here?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
There take on my personality: a rainbow of positivity
- Thread starter Tomo
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