I was chatting to a group of girls from one of my social networks and we were talking about how we perceived each other. All the girls unanimously agreed I was a 'rainbow' or a 'rainbow of positivity'. For some reason this has been playing on my mind and I do not know how to take it. Is this necessarily a bad thing in the scheme of everything here?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
There take on my personality: a rainbow of positivity
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