"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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There is no substitute for real world experience

reyalp

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Repeat after me: There is no substitute for real world experience.

Even I spend too much time reading threads on the forums.

If you're not doing well with girls, then you need to sign up for a boot camp, get your weekly material, and step away from the computer....for the rest of the week.

If you get a sh!t test, or a tricky situation, then we can help you. Go ahead and post a thread asking about it. Then you'll know better next time it comes around out in the field.

But wasting your time trying to learn little tricks over here, thinking they're going to be the end-all be-all get laid routine, is not going to help you. You have to be YOU through the whole process.
Once you've got a game to improve, then you can start picking up other elements as you see that they would help you.


Honestly, I've read a LOT of the material in the DJ bible....but how often does it help me?

When I go out and I worry about being ****y & funny, doing kino, being mysterious, all that shiot, it hasn't gotten me laid. Not once.

When I go out and just have fun, I get it done. But the DJ bible has helped me pick up on how to tell if a girl's interested. From there, I just do my thing. I just be myself.

JUST WING IT, STOP WORRYING ABOUT YOUR GAME. You can analyze later.

Everyone's always asking "What should I say?" or "How do I talk to this girl?".....just do it, pull something out of your ass, ffs! There are 3 billion other women out there, who cares if you screw it up? You've got to crash and burn sometime, so you can figure out what you did wrong. It's all on your shoulders, stop asking us to hold your hand and DO IT!

Because YOU CAN DO IT!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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