"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
There is no sense in dating or relationships in this era
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
kickureface
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can you elaborate on this last part?comic_relief said:
You guys need to get off this whole "women are the reason we can't have nice things" bandwagon.
The women are not the problem, you can find just as many men who are cheaters and liars. The problem isn't the women it's you guys as individuals.
If someone cheats on you it's YOUR fault not theirs. Cheaters are gonna cheat no matter what.
-You chose the person in the first place
-You ignored the red flags and they are always there
-You didn't put her in her place for those behaviors and walk away.
-You chose not to constantly improve yourself so you are clearly better
than the other guy.
If you meet a woman at a club and she is grinding your nuts while she introduces herself then thats a red flag for cheating.
If you enter a long term relationship with a girl you have sex with her withing the first few weeks thats a red flag whether you believe it or not.
If she is still in contact with her ex or flirts with other guys while dating you thats a red flag for a future cheater.
If the womans idea of a good time is going to clubs and bars every weekend and getting completely trashed thats a red flag for a future cheater.
The list goes on and on, but the point is that it's not just the womens fault. Men are just as bad. Go to loveshack and read the countless threads of women who were faithful and their bfs and husbands cheated on them. It works both ways for both men and women.
The problem lies with the individual because as someone already stated you attract the qualities that you to possess. Be honest did you really think the drunk girl you met at a club was "the one"? The individual chose to ignore blatantly bad qualities.
This is where the whole idea of qualifying women came from. Women have been doing it since the beginning of the species and 99% of men still don't do it. They believe it's better to have someone who disrespects them than to have no one at all.
There are plenty of women who would love nothing more than to have a man they could trust and devote themselves to and they would never even think of cheating. She may not be the hot blond 10 of your dreams, but again it's your life and it's always your choice.
The women are not the problem, you can find just as many men who are cheaters and liars. The problem isn't the women it's you guys as individuals.
If someone cheats on you it's YOUR fault not theirs. Cheaters are gonna cheat no matter what.
-You chose the person in the first place
-You ignored the red flags and they are always there
-You didn't put her in her place for those behaviors and walk away.
-You chose not to constantly improve yourself so you are clearly better
than the other guy.
If you meet a woman at a club and she is grinding your nuts while she introduces herself then thats a red flag for cheating.
If you enter a long term relationship with a girl you have sex with her withing the first few weeks thats a red flag whether you believe it or not.
If she is still in contact with her ex or flirts with other guys while dating you thats a red flag for a future cheater.
If the womans idea of a good time is going to clubs and bars every weekend and getting completely trashed thats a red flag for a future cheater.
The list goes on and on, but the point is that it's not just the womens fault. Men are just as bad. Go to loveshack and read the countless threads of women who were faithful and their bfs and husbands cheated on them. It works both ways for both men and women.
The problem lies with the individual because as someone already stated you attract the qualities that you to possess. Be honest did you really think the drunk girl you met at a club was "the one"? The individual chose to ignore blatantly bad qualities.
This is where the whole idea of qualifying women came from. Women have been doing it since the beginning of the species and 99% of men still don't do it. They believe it's better to have someone who disrespects them than to have no one at all.
There are plenty of women who would love nothing more than to have a man they could trust and devote themselves to and they would never even think of cheating. She may not be the hot blond 10 of your dreams, but again it's your life and it's always your choice.
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let me tell one thing that is true Moofahsa
You created this world, with your thoughts and deeds.
Each and everyone of us is responsible, cause we played a part to make the way the world it is now. The no morals the high gas prices, yes everything you and I created it with our fears, our lusts for immoral desires and greed for money. That it why God is mad at sinners Everyday, just by your thoughts you have made people suffer and die, and today people are suffering and dying because of you and me. God will judge you and me and Entire Nations on how we treated the poor, the weak, the children and the elder.
Now what will you do, will you continue on the road to perdition
Or will you change your mind, and your thoughts. To ask God to forgive you in all aspects of your life and to invite the one who gave man the opportunity to be Right with God, the only one Lord Christ Jesus
You created this world, with your thoughts and deeds.
Each and everyone of us is responsible, cause we played a part to make the way the world it is now. The no morals the high gas prices, yes everything you and I created it with our fears, our lusts for immoral desires and greed for money. That it why God is mad at sinners Everyday, just by your thoughts you have made people suffer and die, and today people are suffering and dying because of you and me. God will judge you and me and Entire Nations on how we treated the poor, the weak, the children and the elder.
Now what will you do, will you continue on the road to perdition
Or will you change your mind, and your thoughts. To ask God to forgive you in all aspects of your life and to invite the one who gave man the opportunity to be Right with God, the only one Lord Christ Jesus
Prodigy746
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You have a good poin there Donky....DannykDJ said:
The way i see it is i am not going to even start looking for LTR until i am 25-26 years old. I my self couldnt be faithful to a girl now that i am 21 because my mind constantly wonders about other women i see on the streets. If i got married now i know i would probobly cheat but if i get merried when i am 28-29 i will have more experience with women and wont care to cheat because i am hoping i will sleep with lot of them by than.
To the topic starter....if you get cought by the show CHEATERS make sure you give credit to this forum
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
DJ Noble
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Ahh those good ol Millersville women... they're like nuns compared to the many WCU slags I've been involved with over the years. :crackup:comic_relief said: