"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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There Is No Scarcity Of Hot Women

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I just read a thread about how hot women are becoming scarce due to low standards of men.

Where I'm from.. this is BS.

i live in hollywood and i can tell you there is NO DECLINE in hot girls. theres a truckload everywhere i go. FINE girls hotter than the girls you see on TV. they are everywhere. the only problem is that the competition out here is fierce as well. every guy is jacked, if you dont go to the gym, you're bottom 50%.

everyone drives a 50k+ car, i have a new 5 series bmw 2010 bmw and people here dont even glance twice.



Money and attractiveness are correlated. hot girls come from rich areas.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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garruk said:
I just read a thread about how hot women are becoming scarce due to low standards of men.

AFAIC all men, deep down inside, want a hot girl. But they don't have the means to get one!

Where I'm from.. this is BS.

Try living in Louisiana or Georgia! Women are quick to say they have a bf or want a baby daddy. Milfs are no different.

i live in hollywood and i can tell you there is NO DECLINE in hot girls. theres a truckload everywhere i go. FINE girls hotter than the girls you see on TV. they are everywhere.

Because of plastic surgery. It's very prominent out there. If you're ugly, you better save some money and get it. But Hollywood demands that you look fine. There might even be an ugly law! California girls are typically fine. The pay out there is much higher, but the cost of living and everything else is too! Ask yourself this; Can you ACTUALLY GET these fine girls?

the only problem is that the competition out here is fierce as well. every guy is jacked, if you dont go to the gym, you're bottom 50%.

Competition is firece every f**kin' where! If you weren't born handsome, work on it. Work on your wealth too!

everyone drives a 50k+ car, i have a new 5 series bmw 2010 bmw and people here dont even glance twice.

In Louisiana, people would glance at a new 5 series bmw at least 3 times! You can get a used Bentley GT for damn 50-60K! Or a used Maserati Quattroporte for 35-45K! On ebay! Nobody can tell the difference between model years usually.

Money and attractiveness are correlated. hot girls come from rich areas.That's just there though.
Read bet- Damn.
 

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good thread

garruk said:
I just read a thread about how hot women are becoming scarce due to low standards of men.

Where I'm from.. this is BS.

i live in hollywood and i can tell you there is NO DECLINE in hot girls. theres a truckload everywhere i go. FINE girls hotter than the girls you see on TV. they are everywhere. the only problem is that the competition out here is fierce as well. every guy is jacked, if you dont go to the gym, you're bottom 50%.

everyone drives a 50k+ car, i have a new 5 series bmw 2010 bmw and people here dont even glance twice.



Money and attractiveness are correlated. hot girls come from rich areas.

I was in that thread that you speak of OP, and I just wanted to clarify my stance. I personally believe that yes their is abundance of hotties, but I also believe that guys who are in great/good shape, are lowering their standards to be with less attractive women because they know it's easier and not much of a challenge.

Now a days to "bag" a hot chick you need more then just game, being in great shape, $$$, job etc helps you need something that stands out from the next guy, game alone wont let you keep the chick.

That's my opinon
 

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garruk said:
I just read a thread about how hot women are becoming scarce due to low standards of men.

Where I'm from.. this is BS.

i live in hollywood and i can tell you there is NO DECLINE in hot girls. theres a truckload everywhere i go. FINE girls hotter than the girls you see on TV. they are everywhere. the only problem is that the competition out here is fierce as well. every guy is jacked, if you dont go to the gym, you're bottom 50%.

everyone drives a 50k+ car, i have a new 5 series bmw 2010 bmw and people here dont even glance twice.



Money and attractiveness are correlated. hot girls come from rich areas.
I feel you man. I live in LA too and I just love the amount of hotties that roam the city! :)

That whole thing about needing to drive a fancy car and have many is true to a certain extent, like being into the whole party scene. Everyone is the same there and it's just sad. Sure there's a lot of hot girls in that scene, but it's not my style.

You don't have to join the party/materialistic scene just to get girls.

Btw, are you Armenian?
 

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IamJosan said:
I feel you man. I live in LA too and I just love the amount of hotties that roam the city! :)

That whole thing about needing to drive a fancy car and have many is true to a certain extent, like being into the whole party scene. Everyone is the same there and it's just sad. Sure there's a lot of hot girls in that scene, but it's not my style.

You don't have to join the party/materialistic scene just to get girls.
I'm from LA (The State) and being in the materialistic scene does help. Think about it, women live in the now. Sure they'll respect a working man trying to come up, but they'll run off to the working man who made it and has the proof of it.

Why do you think folks out here in Atlanta rent Bentleys?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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As someone who has been to 39 states I have observed that the single most important factor with how many women you pick up is: how many single women live in your area. Dallas was teeming with hot women. Orlando had hardly any by comparison. Cleveland has lots of desperate hot women. Fort Pierce Florida has hardly any. It's all supply and demand.
 

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IamJosan said:
I feel you man. I live in LA too and I just love the amount of hotties that roam the city! :)

That whole thing about needing to drive a fancy car and have many is true to a certain extent, like being into the whole party scene. Everyone is the same there and it's just sad. Sure there's a lot of hot girls in that scene, but it's not my style.

You don't have to join the party/materialistic scene just to get girls.

Btw, are you Armenian?
i agree, the hot girls are plentiful supply, but the personalitioes of said girls are pretty dry because while theres competition among men for girls, theres just as much competition among girls for men. so these girls spend so much effort into looking good, not much effort goes into anything else :/

oh well, cheers to california!

and no im not armenian. im mixed race, chinese, hawaiian, dutch, german.
 

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IamJosan said:
I feel you man. I live in LA too and I just love the amount of hotties that roam the city! :)

That whole thing about needing to drive a fancy car and have many is true to a certain extent, like being into the whole party scene. Everyone is the same there and it's just sad. Sure there's a lot of hot girls in that scene, but it's not my style.

You don't have to join the party/materialistic scene just to get girls.

Btw, are you Armenian?
i agree, the hot girls are plentiful supply, but the personalitioes of said girls are pretty dry because while theres competition among men for girls, theres just as much competition among girls for men. so these girls spend so much effort into looking good, not much effort goes into anything else :/

oh well, cheers to california!

and no im not armenian. im mixed race, chinese, hawaiian, dutch, german.
 

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nismo-4 said:
Read bet- Damn.

this is exactly my point. i wouldnt want to live in lousiana. from the way you described it who would? no hot girls there? MOVE SOMEWHERE ELSE. i worked hard to get to where i am. to be able afford what i have. 4 years of college (5 actaully), 3 years of law school.

there is no scarcity of hot girls, if there arent enough hot girls where you are... then you arent rich enough.

its like living in a random nigerian village and complaining about hte scarcity of hot girls. get an education and move. (not so easy for nigerians without opportnuities, but if you live in the USA you have no excuse)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Solomon said:
I was in that thread that you speak of OP, and I just wanted to clarify my stance. I personally believe that yes their is abundance of hotties, but I also believe that guys who are in great/good shape, are lowering their standards to be with less attractive women because they know it's easier and not much of a challenge.

Now a days to "bag" a hot chick you need more then just game, being in great shape, $$$, job etc helps you need something that stands out from the next guy, game alone wont let you keep the chick.

That's my opinon

ah i get what your saying. but if the "hot guys" are going for the ugly girls... whose getting all the hot girls?

they have to be fking somebody.
 

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garruk said:
ah i get what your saying. but if the "hot guys" are going for the ugly girls... whose getting all the hot girls?

they have to be fking somebody.
Garruk don't get it confused, I'm not a "absolutist" who thinks every "hot guy" is trying to bone a fattie/whale/UG. But when its the end of the night and the hotties are shutting every guy down, its a mudturtle fest where I live








(just to clarify there hot chicks were I live)
 

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It depends on where you are living at. In some states there are no hot women hardly at all. Some states have hot women and they don't have many guys to choose from so they move.
 

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Maybe you guys are confusing HOT women with QUALITY women.

Hot women are everywhere while quality women are becoming non-existant.

A quality woman is a woman that would make a great mother and a lifetime partner. She makes your life complete and she brings none of the drama, mental baggage, and overall modern female bs that 9 out of 10 women will make you go through in a relationship.

A hot woman is what you find in a club. Great to look at, would love to have her. Sure she will bring fun to your life but she will bring her bpd self, drama, bs and other problems too.

I don't think anyone said that there were no more hot women but quality women? The type that bring nothing but happiness to your life rather than fun mixed with drama and problems? Those are like finding gold.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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f283000 said:
Maybe you guys are confusing HOT women with QUALITY women.

Hot women are everywhere while quality women are becoming non-existant.

A quality woman is a woman that would make a great mother and a lifetime partner. She makes your life complete and she brings none of the drama, mental baggage, and overall modern female bs that 9 out of 10 women will make you go through in a relationship.

A hot woman is what you find in a club. Great to look at, would love to have her. Sure she will bring fun to your life but she will bring her bpd self, drama, bs and other problems too.

I don't think anyone said that there were no more hot women but quality women? The type that bring nothing but happiness to your life rather than fun mixed with drama and problems? Those are like finding gold.

Great post here. He said "hot" and some places don't have them. You want a quality woman but there are hard to find in all in one package.
 

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Dude, you live in Hollywood. It's the exception zone. Stop rubbing it in the face of the guys who live in areas where hambeasts roam the streets.

I'm lucky that I live in a city with plenty of hotties but I'm smart enough to know that it's not the reality for many other guys.
 

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EvilAgenda said:
That's what happens when quality men become extinct - quality women become non-existent.
False. If weren't weren't jumping on thugs then I would believe this is true. There are plenty of quality men out there but unfortunately "they're too nice."

Or maybe i'm wrong and I don't know what a quality man is to a woman. But from the type of men that women seems to run to like roaches now a days I don't think i care what they think.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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