“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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There Is No Scarcity Of Hot Women

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I just read a thread about how hot women are becoming scarce due to low standards of men.

Where I'm from.. this is BS.

i live in hollywood and i can tell you there is NO DECLINE in hot girls. theres a truckload everywhere i go. FINE girls hotter than the girls you see on TV. they are everywhere. the only problem is that the competition out here is fierce as well. every guy is jacked, if you dont go to the gym, you're bottom 50%.

everyone drives a 50k+ car, i have a new 5 series bmw 2010 bmw and people here dont even glance twice.



Money and attractiveness are correlated. hot girls come from rich areas.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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garruk said:
I just read a thread about how hot women are becoming scarce due to low standards of men.

AFAIC all men, deep down inside, want a hot girl. But they don't have the means to get one!

Where I'm from.. this is BS.

Try living in Louisiana or Georgia! Women are quick to say they have a bf or want a baby daddy. Milfs are no different.

i live in hollywood and i can tell you there is NO DECLINE in hot girls. theres a truckload everywhere i go. FINE girls hotter than the girls you see on TV. they are everywhere.

Because of plastic surgery. It's very prominent out there. If you're ugly, you better save some money and get it. But Hollywood demands that you look fine. There might even be an ugly law! California girls are typically fine. The pay out there is much higher, but the cost of living and everything else is too! Ask yourself this; Can you ACTUALLY GET these fine girls?

the only problem is that the competition out here is fierce as well. every guy is jacked, if you dont go to the gym, you're bottom 50%.

Competition is firece every f**kin' where! If you weren't born handsome, work on it. Work on your wealth too!

everyone drives a 50k+ car, i have a new 5 series bmw 2010 bmw and people here dont even glance twice.

In Louisiana, people would glance at a new 5 series bmw at least 3 times! You can get a used Bentley GT for damn 50-60K! Or a used Maserati Quattroporte for 35-45K! On ebay! Nobody can tell the difference between model years usually.

Money and attractiveness are correlated. hot girls come from rich areas.That's just there though.
Read bet- Damn.
 

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good thread

garruk said:
I just read a thread about how hot women are becoming scarce due to low standards of men.

Where I'm from.. this is BS.

i live in hollywood and i can tell you there is NO DECLINE in hot girls. theres a truckload everywhere i go. FINE girls hotter than the girls you see on TV. they are everywhere. the only problem is that the competition out here is fierce as well. every guy is jacked, if you dont go to the gym, you're bottom 50%.

everyone drives a 50k+ car, i have a new 5 series bmw 2010 bmw and people here dont even glance twice.



Money and attractiveness are correlated. hot girls come from rich areas.

I was in that thread that you speak of OP, and I just wanted to clarify my stance. I personally believe that yes their is abundance of hotties, but I also believe that guys who are in great/good shape, are lowering their standards to be with less attractive women because they know it's easier and not much of a challenge.

Now a days to "bag" a hot chick you need more then just game, being in great shape, $$$, job etc helps you need something that stands out from the next guy, game alone wont let you keep the chick.

That's my opinon
 

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garruk said:
I just read a thread about how hot women are becoming scarce due to low standards of men.

Where I'm from.. this is BS.

i live in hollywood and i can tell you there is NO DECLINE in hot girls. theres a truckload everywhere i go. FINE girls hotter than the girls you see on TV. they are everywhere. the only problem is that the competition out here is fierce as well. every guy is jacked, if you dont go to the gym, you're bottom 50%.

everyone drives a 50k+ car, i have a new 5 series bmw 2010 bmw and people here dont even glance twice.



Money and attractiveness are correlated. hot girls come from rich areas.
I feel you man. I live in LA too and I just love the amount of hotties that roam the city! :)

That whole thing about needing to drive a fancy car and have many is true to a certain extent, like being into the whole party scene. Everyone is the same there and it's just sad. Sure there's a lot of hot girls in that scene, but it's not my style.

You don't have to join the party/materialistic scene just to get girls.

Btw, are you Armenian?
 

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IamJosan said:
I feel you man. I live in LA too and I just love the amount of hotties that roam the city! :)

That whole thing about needing to drive a fancy car and have many is true to a certain extent, like being into the whole party scene. Everyone is the same there and it's just sad. Sure there's a lot of hot girls in that scene, but it's not my style.

You don't have to join the party/materialistic scene just to get girls.
I'm from LA (The State) and being in the materialistic scene does help. Think about it, women live in the now. Sure they'll respect a working man trying to come up, but they'll run off to the working man who made it and has the proof of it.

Why do you think folks out here in Atlanta rent Bentleys?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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As someone who has been to 39 states I have observed that the single most important factor with how many women you pick up is: how many single women live in your area. Dallas was teeming with hot women. Orlando had hardly any by comparison. Cleveland has lots of desperate hot women. Fort Pierce Florida has hardly any. It's all supply and demand.
 

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IamJosan said:
I feel you man. I live in LA too and I just love the amount of hotties that roam the city! :)

That whole thing about needing to drive a fancy car and have many is true to a certain extent, like being into the whole party scene. Everyone is the same there and it's just sad. Sure there's a lot of hot girls in that scene, but it's not my style.

You don't have to join the party/materialistic scene just to get girls.

Btw, are you Armenian?
i agree, the hot girls are plentiful supply, but the personalitioes of said girls are pretty dry because while theres competition among men for girls, theres just as much competition among girls for men. so these girls spend so much effort into looking good, not much effort goes into anything else :/

oh well, cheers to california!

and no im not armenian. im mixed race, chinese, hawaiian, dutch, german.
 

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IamJosan said:
I feel you man. I live in LA too and I just love the amount of hotties that roam the city! :)

That whole thing about needing to drive a fancy car and have many is true to a certain extent, like being into the whole party scene. Everyone is the same there and it's just sad. Sure there's a lot of hot girls in that scene, but it's not my style.

You don't have to join the party/materialistic scene just to get girls.

Btw, are you Armenian?
i agree, the hot girls are plentiful supply, but the personalitioes of said girls are pretty dry because while theres competition among men for girls, theres just as much competition among girls for men. so these girls spend so much effort into looking good, not much effort goes into anything else :/

oh well, cheers to california!

and no im not armenian. im mixed race, chinese, hawaiian, dutch, german.
 

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nismo-4 said:
Read bet- Damn.

this is exactly my point. i wouldnt want to live in lousiana. from the way you described it who would? no hot girls there? MOVE SOMEWHERE ELSE. i worked hard to get to where i am. to be able afford what i have. 4 years of college (5 actaully), 3 years of law school.

there is no scarcity of hot girls, if there arent enough hot girls where you are... then you arent rich enough.

its like living in a random nigerian village and complaining about hte scarcity of hot girls. get an education and move. (not so easy for nigerians without opportnuities, but if you live in the USA you have no excuse)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Solomon said:
I was in that thread that you speak of OP, and I just wanted to clarify my stance. I personally believe that yes their is abundance of hotties, but I also believe that guys who are in great/good shape, are lowering their standards to be with less attractive women because they know it's easier and not much of a challenge.

Now a days to "bag" a hot chick you need more then just game, being in great shape, $$$, job etc helps you need something that stands out from the next guy, game alone wont let you keep the chick.

That's my opinon

ah i get what your saying. but if the "hot guys" are going for the ugly girls... whose getting all the hot girls?

they have to be fking somebody.
 

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garruk said:
ah i get what your saying. but if the "hot guys" are going for the ugly girls... whose getting all the hot girls?

they have to be fking somebody.
Garruk don't get it confused, I'm not a "absolutist" who thinks every "hot guy" is trying to bone a fattie/whale/UG. But when its the end of the night and the hotties are shutting every guy down, its a mudturtle fest where I live








(just to clarify there hot chicks were I live)
 

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It depends on where you are living at. In some states there are no hot women hardly at all. Some states have hot women and they don't have many guys to choose from so they move.
 

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Maybe you guys are confusing HOT women with QUALITY women.

Hot women are everywhere while quality women are becoming non-existant.

A quality woman is a woman that would make a great mother and a lifetime partner. She makes your life complete and she brings none of the drama, mental baggage, and overall modern female bs that 9 out of 10 women will make you go through in a relationship.

A hot woman is what you find in a club. Great to look at, would love to have her. Sure she will bring fun to your life but she will bring her bpd self, drama, bs and other problems too.

I don't think anyone said that there were no more hot women but quality women? The type that bring nothing but happiness to your life rather than fun mixed with drama and problems? Those are like finding gold.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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f283000 said:
Maybe you guys are confusing HOT women with QUALITY women.

Hot women are everywhere while quality women are becoming non-existant.

A quality woman is a woman that would make a great mother and a lifetime partner. She makes your life complete and she brings none of the drama, mental baggage, and overall modern female bs that 9 out of 10 women will make you go through in a relationship.

A hot woman is what you find in a club. Great to look at, would love to have her. Sure she will bring fun to your life but she will bring her bpd self, drama, bs and other problems too.

I don't think anyone said that there were no more hot women but quality women? The type that bring nothing but happiness to your life rather than fun mixed with drama and problems? Those are like finding gold.

Great post here. He said "hot" and some places don't have them. You want a quality woman but there are hard to find in all in one package.
 

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Dude, you live in Hollywood. It's the exception zone. Stop rubbing it in the face of the guys who live in areas where hambeasts roam the streets.

I'm lucky that I live in a city with plenty of hotties but I'm smart enough to know that it's not the reality for many other guys.
 

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EvilAgenda said:
That's what happens when quality men become extinct - quality women become non-existent.
False. If weren't weren't jumping on thugs then I would believe this is true. There are plenty of quality men out there but unfortunately "they're too nice."

Or maybe i'm wrong and I don't know what a quality man is to a woman. But from the type of men that women seems to run to like roaches now a days I don't think i care what they think.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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