Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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There is no 10...

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At least in most parts of North America. I thought it was only where I lived, but I went on vacation to several different cities over the summer, and the only true 10 I saw was a European woman on vacation...natural tan, big natural tits, perfect face, perfect curvy body.

Sure, if you're idea of "10" is any girl with a fake tan and skanky clothes that isn't fat, you can find those at any bar or club. I'm talking real natural 10s. I've seen maybe a handful in my life on the street (I define 10 as perfect face, perfectly proportional big breasts, that "it" quality...the kind your uncle that can't get it up any longer would be jealous of.) The rest were at strip clubs.

I'm officially tired of chasing a shadow, and will gladly continue to date cute or "hot" women or what the site would call a 6/7/8.

I get the impression when guys on here say "I banged/dated a 10" it's just some 6 or 7 that they think is a 10 because she's their type.

The few 9s I've known and been around have had a severe ego problem (since few of them exist and there's no competition to level off their ego.)

I realize 6/7/8s have their attitude problems too, but it's severely less and also if one 6/7/8 flakes, you can easily find another one, or date a few of them at the same time.

I think as men, we are programmed to want to reproduce with the best woman possible...which is why we masturbate to hotties in porn. They represent an ideal.

I'll take any girl that could possibly get me off, especially since I'm not looking for an LTR, where I'd care about that "special quality" where she's "my 10." Even then, she's not even really a 10, just a 10 to the person at hand.

Disclaimer: I realize some of you on here live in NYC, Miami, Vegas, Texas, L.A. and the like...this obviously doesn't apply to you. I've been to Texas once and there are natural 10s all over the place. Not only that, they have personalities that are nice as hell.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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pipe007

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I dont put women on a scale anymore...

I go by two types of women a 0 and a 1

0 - she is not good enough for me.
1 - she is good enough for me.

its all about whats best for you.
 

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I don't know what black ops is. And this is based on going to a handful of bars and clubs of different varities and being out every single day. If anything bars and clubs are full of fatties and UGs and cute girls that act like 10s and this is from direct experience.
 

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Very good you found a 10 i really do hope you went up and spoke to her because if not then what is seriously the point, this isn't some sort of bird watching site. What you have just posted basically is.

Wow guys i really saw this perfect hot chick today.

^ what do you want us to reply with...."well done you have eyes"

go back and try to make some close on these hotties.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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rushing dude 123 said:
if not then what is seriously the point, this isn't some sort of bird watching site.
Hahaha..."bird watching" site. Get the joke?
 

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That's the thing, I was too nervous around the 10...but talked to plenty of 8s/9s on the vacation. There really is no difference in drop-off between a 9 and 10 other than that the 10 is rare in most parts of the U.S. and therefore most lack experience talking to one. (A true 10 I mean.)
 

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pipe007 said:
I dont put women on a scale anymore...

I go by two types of women a 0 and a 1

0 - she is not good enough for me.
1 - she is good enough for me.

its all about whats best for you.

simple yet effective. i like it.
 

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I don't believe in 10s at all. A ten is the ideal of perfection, which cannot be reached. It is just there to define the scale.
What you call a 10 I would probably call a 9.7 or something like that.

The few 9s I've known and been around have had a severe ego problem (since few of them exist and there's no competition to level off their ego.)
I tend to agree with this. They may be nice enough, but when it comes to the opposite sex they have a complete sense of entitlement, because they know they can get pretty much any guy they want. They are constantly being blasted with male attention, which drives up their ego.
 

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Thread titled "There is no 10..." where the post is all about seeing 10s in various places. Are the majority of people high when they create threads on this board? I'm not sure what response you are looking for here.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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