"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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There is no 10...

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At least in most parts of North America. I thought it was only where I lived, but I went on vacation to several different cities over the summer, and the only true 10 I saw was a European woman on vacation...natural tan, big natural tits, perfect face, perfect curvy body.

Sure, if you're idea of "10" is any girl with a fake tan and skanky clothes that isn't fat, you can find those at any bar or club. I'm talking real natural 10s. I've seen maybe a handful in my life on the street (I define 10 as perfect face, perfectly proportional big breasts, that "it" quality...the kind your uncle that can't get it up any longer would be jealous of.) The rest were at strip clubs.

I'm officially tired of chasing a shadow, and will gladly continue to date cute or "hot" women or what the site would call a 6/7/8.

I get the impression when guys on here say "I banged/dated a 10" it's just some 6 or 7 that they think is a 10 because she's their type.

The few 9s I've known and been around have had a severe ego problem (since few of them exist and there's no competition to level off their ego.)

I realize 6/7/8s have their attitude problems too, but it's severely less and also if one 6/7/8 flakes, you can easily find another one, or date a few of them at the same time.

I think as men, we are programmed to want to reproduce with the best woman possible...which is why we masturbate to hotties in porn. They represent an ideal.

I'll take any girl that could possibly get me off, especially since I'm not looking for an LTR, where I'd care about that "special quality" where she's "my 10." Even then, she's not even really a 10, just a 10 to the person at hand.

Disclaimer: I realize some of you on here live in NYC, Miami, Vegas, Texas, L.A. and the like...this obviously doesn't apply to you. I've been to Texas once and there are natural 10s all over the place. Not only that, they have personalities that are nice as hell.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I dont put women on a scale anymore...

I go by two types of women a 0 and a 1

0 - she is not good enough for me.
1 - she is good enough for me.

its all about whats best for you.
 

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I don't know what black ops is. And this is based on going to a handful of bars and clubs of different varities and being out every single day. If anything bars and clubs are full of fatties and UGs and cute girls that act like 10s and this is from direct experience.
 

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Very good you found a 10 i really do hope you went up and spoke to her because if not then what is seriously the point, this isn't some sort of bird watching site. What you have just posted basically is.

Wow guys i really saw this perfect hot chick today.

^ what do you want us to reply with...."well done you have eyes"

go back and try to make some close on these hotties.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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rushing dude 123 said:
if not then what is seriously the point, this isn't some sort of bird watching site.
Hahaha..."bird watching" site. Get the joke?
 

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That's the thing, I was too nervous around the 10...but talked to plenty of 8s/9s on the vacation. There really is no difference in drop-off between a 9 and 10 other than that the 10 is rare in most parts of the U.S. and therefore most lack experience talking to one. (A true 10 I mean.)
 

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pipe007 said:
I dont put women on a scale anymore...

I go by two types of women a 0 and a 1

0 - she is not good enough for me.
1 - she is good enough for me.

its all about whats best for you.

simple yet effective. i like it.
 

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I don't believe in 10s at all. A ten is the ideal of perfection, which cannot be reached. It is just there to define the scale.
What you call a 10 I would probably call a 9.7 or something like that.

The few 9s I've known and been around have had a severe ego problem (since few of them exist and there's no competition to level off their ego.)
I tend to agree with this. They may be nice enough, but when it comes to the opposite sex they have a complete sense of entitlement, because they know they can get pretty much any guy they want. They are constantly being blasted with male attention, which drives up their ego.
 

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Thread titled "There is no 10..." where the post is all about seeing 10s in various places. Are the majority of people high when they create threads on this board? I'm not sure what response you are looking for here.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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