"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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There can be no doubt

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There have been alot of posts about interest and .. well .. she did this and that, so that likely means this, that and the other.

You have to let that go. It's a disease of the mind (quoted from Bruce Lee) to over-analyze something out of your control. It stems from insecurities. It will only create a deeper hole for you. Don't short-change yourself any longer.

Visualize the things you want (you are what you think). It's all stems from positive body language. Upon doing this, things will come naturally. You'll end up doing the right things naturally - and if you should get rejected, is her loss, not yours. You know you're a man of integrity, has and will accomplish a lot.

It really is easier than most people realize. It's just a matter of taking action and controlling your thought processes not to include over-analyzing and being more natural.

The less you doubt yourself, the less other people will to.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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tmpgstx what a wicked post. I agree so much, I can't even put it into words.:up:
 

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tmpgstx said:
There have been alot of posts about interest and .. well .. she did this and that, so that likely means this, that and the other.

You have to let that go. It's a disease of the mind (quoted from Bruce Lee) to over-analyze something out of your control. It stems from insecurities. It will only create a deeper hole for you. Don't short-change yourself any longer.

Visualize the things you want (you are what you think). It's all stems from positive body language. Upon doing this, things will come naturally. You'll end up doing the right things naturally - and if you should get rejected, is her loss, not yours. You know you're a man of integrity, has and will accomplish a lot.

It really is easier than most people realize. It's just a matter of taking action and controlling your thought processes not to include over-analyzing and being more natural.

The less you doubt yourself, the less other people will to.
I LIKE YOU.............LOL great post and something all the newbs should read
 
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