"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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There can be no doubt

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There have been alot of posts about interest and .. well .. she did this and that, so that likely means this, that and the other.

You have to let that go. It's a disease of the mind (quoted from Bruce Lee) to over-analyze something out of your control. It stems from insecurities. It will only create a deeper hole for you. Don't short-change yourself any longer.

Visualize the things you want (you are what you think). It's all stems from positive body language. Upon doing this, things will come naturally. You'll end up doing the right things naturally - and if you should get rejected, is her loss, not yours. You know you're a man of integrity, has and will accomplish a lot.

It really is easier than most people realize. It's just a matter of taking action and controlling your thought processes not to include over-analyzing and being more natural.

The less you doubt yourself, the less other people will to.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Be the light of the world.
 

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tmpgstx what a wicked post. I agree so much, I can't even put it into words.:up:
 

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tmpgstx said:
There have been alot of posts about interest and .. well .. she did this and that, so that likely means this, that and the other.

You have to let that go. It's a disease of the mind (quoted from Bruce Lee) to over-analyze something out of your control. It stems from insecurities. It will only create a deeper hole for you. Don't short-change yourself any longer.

Visualize the things you want (you are what you think). It's all stems from positive body language. Upon doing this, things will come naturally. You'll end up doing the right things naturally - and if you should get rejected, is her loss, not yours. You know you're a man of integrity, has and will accomplish a lot.

It really is easier than most people realize. It's just a matter of taking action and controlling your thought processes not to include over-analyzing and being more natural.

The less you doubt yourself, the less other people will to.
I LIKE YOU.............LOL great post and something all the newbs should read
 
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