"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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There are four kinds of people

Burroughs

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In a time like ours there are four kinds of people. There are those who consciously wish to sink further and deeper into chaos and darkness. There are those who willingly or unwillingly, are always ready to endure anything. Then there are also dinosaurs around who live the present situation by way of lamenting. From whining to commemorations, they imagine they can bring back the old order, which explains why they constantly score defeats.

But there are also those who yearn for a new beginning. Those who live in the darkness, but are not of the darkness; i.e. those who strive to resurrect the light. Those who know that beyond the real, there is also the possible. They like to quote George Orwell: “In a time of universal deceit, telling the truth is a revolutionary act.”'

Alain de Benoist
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I am a proud dinosaur.

There is much to learn by looking at the past as we move forward.

Burroughs said:
looking to the past doesn't make you a dinosaur

living there does :up:
Quite true friend:) Although if God sent a messenger down to say that I could be born again into the early 20th century and live to be 80 or 90, I would have to give it some serious thought. What a cool place America was then. But it can be cool again, we just need a war to shake things up IMO...and then I will get to work rebuilding this mess.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lDaj1gY7Cv0
 

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Darth said:
I am a proud dinosaur.

There is much to learn by looking at the past as we move forward.

looking to the past doesn't make you a dinosaur

living there does :up:
 

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I look to the present and the future. The past is prologue. For those who have had a shtty past already, there is no nostalgia, and we know doing nothing will not work and enduring is what we've been doing. There is nothing to resurrect, there is only a new order to create.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I like this one:

There are three kinds of people:

Those that make things happen.

Those that watch things happen.

Those that say, "Huh? What happened?"
 

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taiyuu_otoko said:
I like this one:

There are three kinds of people:

Those that make things happen.

Those that watch things happen.

Those that say, "Huh? What happened?"
at your age you should be worrying about your kids and ****, not posting crap on forums
 

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Dear Burroughs,
Sorry Mate,but for once I am less divisive than you...Just two groups,those that come onto this Earth with a Saddle and a bit between their teeth,and those that Ride with a whip and sharp spurs!
 

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Dear Zen,
"at your age you should be worrying about your kids and ****, not posting crap on forums"...And at your age you shouldn't be giving advice to your betters!
 

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I always liked this quote from Tom Brown Jr.

“Grandfather said that there were only two types of people in the world, critics and doers…. Doers are the people that the critics criticize, because they are the ones doing. With doing there is living. Doers are the people who make change, who never criticize, because they are too busy doing.”
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Here's another one I heard from a guy I used to work with:

You'll find three kinds of people in bars:

Lonely people

Alcoholics

Those that got a system at the track
 

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taiyuu_otoko said:
Here's another one I heard from a guy I used to work with:

You'll find three kinds of people in bars:

Lonely people

Alcoholics

Those that got a system at the track
no it`s

- Lonely people who want to get laid
- Alcoholics
- People who are selling alcohol to losers

in most cases the girl chooses a guy from her social circle, invites him to party, fvcks him afterwards, therefore club game is lame and almost non-existant

you get better results from a dancing class or going to closed circle, house parties

the alpha male that can always pull in the clubs is a pua urban myth
 

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Scaramouche said:
Dear Zen,
"at your age you should be worrying about your kids and ****, not posting crap on forums"...And at your age you shouldn't be giving advice to your betters!
age 68 are you kidding me? not even viagra works at that time and half of the population is already dead at that age, who the hell taught you to type grandpa :crackup:

- winners get old
- losers get old
- everybody gets old

just because you are old, doesn`t mean you haven`t wasted your life :crackup:
 

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zenaddict said:
no it`s

- Lonely people who want to get laid
- Alcoholics
- People who are selling alcohol to losers

in most cases the girl chooses a guy from her social circle, invites him to party, fvcks him afterwards, therefore club game is lame and almost non-existant

you get better results from a dancing class or going to closed circle, house parties

the alpha male that can always pull in the clubs is a pua urban myth
Sounds like you are believing this excuse you've made up to justify why it isn't working for you. Also your attitude to those older than you is not befitting, maybe you need to rethink your use.
 
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yeah, it was effing wonderful, flu, diptheria, polio, whooping cough Tb, killing and maiming 10's of millions, effing GREAT time.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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