"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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There’s no life better than the life you live

Epicurus

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I woke up on this beautiful Wednesday one day before a long weekend and I decided to reflect for a second

It’s great to be alive and healthy. We as humans don’t sit back enough and reflect on the positive and bright side of our journeys

Grateful to have successful and focused men and women surrounding me.
Greateful to have acquired two degrees while almost having my third and having an amazing job.
Grateful for all the good and bad women who have been a part of my life in the past and future and who will continue to teach me valuable lessons and truly be a reflection of how much progress I continue to make. Grateful for seeing another sunrise and sunset.

I’m in love with this life, truly.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Epicurus

Senior Don Juan
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I woke up on this beautiful Wednesday one day before a long weekend and I decided to reflect for a second

It’s great to be alive and healthy. We as humans don’t sit back enough and reflect on the positive and bright side of our journeys

Grateful to have successful and focused men and women surrounding me.
Greateful to have acquired two degrees while almost having my third and having an amazing job.
Grateful for all the good and bad women who have been a part of my life in the past and future and who will continue to teach me valuable lessons and truly be a reflection of how much progress I continue to make. Grateful for seeing another sunrise and sunset.

I’m in love with this life, truly.
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