Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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There’s no life better than the life you live

Epicurus

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I woke up on this beautiful Wednesday one day before a long weekend and I decided to reflect for a second

It’s great to be alive and healthy. We as humans don’t sit back enough and reflect on the positive and bright side of our journeys

Grateful to have successful and focused men and women surrounding me.
Greateful to have acquired two degrees while almost having my third and having an amazing job.
Grateful for all the good and bad women who have been a part of my life in the past and future and who will continue to teach me valuable lessons and truly be a reflection of how much progress I continue to make. Grateful for seeing another sunrise and sunset.

I’m in love with this life, truly.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Epicurus

Senior Don Juan
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I woke up on this beautiful Wednesday one day before a long weekend and I decided to reflect for a second

It’s great to be alive and healthy. We as humans don’t sit back enough and reflect on the positive and bright side of our journeys

Grateful to have successful and focused men and women surrounding me.
Greateful to have acquired two degrees while almost having my third and having an amazing job.
Grateful for all the good and bad women who have been a part of my life in the past and future and who will continue to teach me valuable lessons and truly be a reflection of how much progress I continue to make. Grateful for seeing another sunrise and sunset.

I’m in love with this life, truly.
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