"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Okay, well my friends and I want to organize a themed party. Obvioulsy there will be liquor there and sh*t. Anyways we have NO idea of what the theme should be about.

So far we know of Toga party theme, black and white, and CEO's and corporate Ho's.

We don't want to do any of these as tehy are used so much. What are some other theme ideas?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Fvck that, pirates and ninjas.
 
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but what will the girls be?

besides, i dont think there is a need to start up the age old debate of pirates and ninjas. lol.
 
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uhh...beach party, jello wrestling, hot sexy b*tches gettin naked.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Originally posted by oakraiderz2
jello wrestling, hot sexy b*tches gettin naked.
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party themes, not porno themes, lol.

u cant have much of a party with everyone focused on the boobs in the jello. u gotta have the proper circulation! hahaha
 
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i think were doing jungle theme lol...just so we can have jungle juice haah...umm now what can girls and guys dress up as for thsi

obviously tarzan and jane but what else?
 
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hope its not cold out there, since if everyone is just in their loincloths and furry bras, it probably wont go over too well. and i cant think of much else u can be with that theme. a monkey girl? no thanks...

i dunno, whatever works for u.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Originally posted by toddC
i think were doing jungle theme lol...just so we can have jungle juice haah...umm now what can girls and guys dress up as for thsi

obviously tarzan and jane but what else?
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Jungle theme is limited.
 
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Originally posted by Ace of Flames
besides, i dont think there is a need to start up the age old debate of pirates and ninjas. lol.
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ROFL long live the pirates....

as for theme ideas...the possiblities are endless

50s, 60s, 70s, 80s, even 90s, disco, pirates, jungle idea is good but limited, pimps and hos, togas/roman, surfers, western, hawaiian, etc.

watch Van Wilder...you'll find some ideas there
 
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Lingerie Party.
 
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I like pimps and hoes personally.
I also like Ninja's better than pirates. Especially Turtle Ninjas. They kick your ass times ten.
I'm not really good with parties, so I dunno.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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