"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Themed parties!

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Okay, well my friends and I want to organize a themed party. Obvioulsy there will be liquor there and sh*t. Anyways we have NO idea of what the theme should be about.

So far we know of Toga party theme, black and white, and CEO's and corporate Ho's.

We don't want to do any of these as tehy are used so much. What are some other theme ideas?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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shiningshadow

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Fvck that, pirates and ninjas.
 

Ace of Flames

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but what will the girls be?

besides, i dont think there is a need to start up the age old debate of pirates and ninjas. lol.
 

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uhh...beach party, jello wrestling, hot sexy b*tches gettin naked.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ace of Flames

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Originally posted by oakraiderz2
jello wrestling, hot sexy b*tches gettin naked.
party themes, not porno themes, lol.

u cant have much of a party with everyone focused on the boobs in the jello. u gotta have the proper circulation! hahaha
 

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i think were doing jungle theme lol...just so we can have jungle juice haah...umm now what can girls and guys dress up as for thsi

obviously tarzan and jane but what else?
 

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hope its not cold out there, since if everyone is just in their loincloths and furry bras, it probably wont go over too well. and i cant think of much else u can be with that theme. a monkey girl? no thanks...

i dunno, whatever works for u.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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DJ4Real

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Originally posted by toddC
i think were doing jungle theme lol...just so we can have jungle juice haah...umm now what can girls and guys dress up as for thsi

obviously tarzan and jane but what else?
Jungle theme is limited.
 

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Originally posted by Ace of Flames
besides, i dont think there is a need to start up the age old debate of pirates and ninjas. lol.
ROFL long live the pirates....

as for theme ideas...the possiblities are endless

50s, 60s, 70s, 80s, even 90s, disco, pirates, jungle idea is good but limited, pimps and hos, togas/roman, surfers, western, hawaiian, etc.

watch Van Wilder...you'll find some ideas there
 

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Lingerie Party.
 

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I like pimps and hoes personally.
I also like Ninja's better than pirates. Especially Turtle Ninjas. They kick your ass times ten.
I'm not really good with parties, so I dunno.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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