The "You Must Get A lot of Girls" $hit Test

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

DJHoolahoop

Senior Don Juan

Nov 1, 2005

Originally posted by Don Juanabbe
I got a variation on this one from some whackjob at the bar awhile back, she said, "Holy cow, on looks alone, you could get any woman you want."

Blah.

and I would have said something similar to what another guy said. But I'd change it up just a bit and say "You're right, let's start with you."

If a girl ever said "You must get a lot of girls" and I'd try saying either "You must stump a lot of guys with that one." or "Yeah, it gets hard keeping track."

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.