The "You Must Get A lot of Girls" $hit Test

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

DJHoolahoop

Senior Don Juan

Nov 1, 2005

Originally posted by Don Juanabbe
I got a variation on this one from some whackjob at the bar awhile back, she said, "Holy cow, on looks alone, you could get any woman you want."

Blah.

and I would have said something similar to what another guy said. But I'd change it up just a bit and say "You're right, let's start with you."

If a girl ever said "You must get a lot of girls" and I'd try saying either "You must stump a lot of guys with that one." or "Yeah, it gets hard keeping track."

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.