"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The year with PURE BPD EVIL.

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Red flags

They come to you
They act all sweet and innocent to begin with. Believe me they are not. They probably fvcked animals and got STDs
They say I love you to rope you in and tell you not to break their heart.
They will complain about their exbf saying you are good.
They ask for you to reciprorate. DONT. If you do then you are fvcked.
They suck and fvck you like crazy. (THIS IS THE ONLY POSITIVE)
They want to break your existing relationship
They lie like Bill Gates is rich
They say they had bad childhood
They will be completely selfish but say YOU are selfish. THIS IS HUGE RED FLAG.
The more you do for them..the worse it gets
They become demanding and petty after honeymoon period. IF you give in they will bully you ad infinitum. actually you should leave at this point
They will say its all your fault and break up with you. Just go ghost.
They may come back to you::::: DONT LET THEM IN (THIS IS THE MOST IMPT)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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i hate bpds so much…didn't recognize my ex was bpd until it was too late
 
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My ex brother in law hooked up with and married a genuine BPD psycho b*tch from hell who makes his life a living hell. And it makes me very happy because he's a flushed turd. What goes around comes around.
 
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This is why its so important to lead the relationship as a man.

A BPD woman can only screw you if you follow her lead. You should always be doing whatever the f*ck you want based on YOUR values and what YOU believe in... regardless of how the woman feels or what the woman wants. PERIOD. :up:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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