"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The year with PURE BPD EVIL.

mikey2012

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Red flags

They come to you
They act all sweet and innocent to begin with. Believe me they are not. They probably fvcked animals and got STDs
They say I love you to rope you in and tell you not to break their heart.
They will complain about their exbf saying you are good.
They ask for you to reciprorate. DONT. If you do then you are fvcked.
They suck and fvck you like crazy. (THIS IS THE ONLY POSITIVE)
They want to break your existing relationship
They lie like Bill Gates is rich
They say they had bad childhood
They will be completely selfish but say YOU are selfish. THIS IS HUGE RED FLAG.
The more you do for them..the worse it gets
They become demanding and petty after honeymoon period. IF you give in they will bully you ad infinitum. actually you should leave at this point
They will say its all your fault and break up with you. Just go ghost.
They may come back to you::::: DONT LET THEM IN (THIS IS THE MOST IMPT)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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justin11

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i hate bpds so much…didn't recognize my ex was bpd until it was too late
 

GS750

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My ex brother in law hooked up with and married a genuine BPD psycho b*tch from hell who makes his life a living hell. And it makes me very happy because he's a flushed turd. What goes around comes around.
 

PlayHer Man

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This is why its so important to lead the relationship as a man.

A BPD woman can only screw you if you follow her lead. You should always be doing whatever the f*ck you want based on YOUR values and what YOU believe in... regardless of how the woman feels or what the woman wants. PERIOD. :up:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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