"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The "WTF are we?" debate & where to go from here

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3 months ago first night f closed with hb9. Day after she brings up "I'm not looking for a relationship" which I understand means not with me. No problem as I was seeing other girls.

Kept in contact and ended hooking up 2 more times since then. Last time she ended up staying the night and we spent the entire next day hanging out. Definitely felt like more than fwb.

Would actually like to be exclusive with her but don't feel like spoiling anything by bringing it up. Your thoughts?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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no way.. dont talk about exclusive with her by any means (my imo ofc). make her chase you, dont show her your high levels of interest/desires to date her by any means. at least not that early.
 
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JonnyD123 said:
3 months ago first night f closed with hb9. Day after she brings up "I'm not looking for a relationship" which I understand means not with me. No problem as I was seeing other girls.

Kept in contact and ended hooking up 2 more times since then. Last time she ended up staying the night and we spent the entire next day hanging out. Definitely felt like more than fwb.

Would actually like to be exclusive with her but don't feel like spoiling anything by bringing it up. Your thoughts?
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A HB9? So you're dating a Kate Upton look a like? :crackup:

Try more like a HB5

I'd say you better get your head screwed on right or you're gonna mess up with this girl by catching feelings. A sure fire way to ruin a good FB relationship. Don't hang out all day with a girl you just screw for fun. She hasn't brought up anything about a relationship so don't say a word to her about wanting to be in one. Let her bring that up to you. What happened to your other girls? A seasoned vet wouldn't start getting a fever for one girl like this. Buck up or she's gonna fly when you come on too strong. No more all day hang outs.
 
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