“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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The "WTF are we?" debate & where to go from here

JonnyD123

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3 months ago first night f closed with hb9. Day after she brings up "I'm not looking for a relationship" which I understand means not with me. No problem as I was seeing other girls.

Kept in contact and ended hooking up 2 more times since then. Last time she ended up staying the night and we spent the entire next day hanging out. Definitely felt like more than fwb.

Would actually like to be exclusive with her but don't feel like spoiling anything by bringing it up. Your thoughts?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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no way.. dont talk about exclusive with her by any means (my imo ofc). make her chase you, dont show her your high levels of interest/desires to date her by any means. at least not that early.
 

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JonnyD123 said:
3 months ago first night f closed with hb9. Day after she brings up "I'm not looking for a relationship" which I understand means not with me. No problem as I was seeing other girls.

Kept in contact and ended hooking up 2 more times since then. Last time she ended up staying the night and we spent the entire next day hanging out. Definitely felt like more than fwb.

Would actually like to be exclusive with her but don't feel like spoiling anything by bringing it up. Your thoughts?

A HB9? So you're dating a Kate Upton look a like? :crackup:

Try more like a HB5

I'd say you better get your head screwed on right or you're gonna mess up with this girl by catching feelings. A sure fire way to ruin a good FB relationship. Don't hang out all day with a girl you just screw for fun. She hasn't brought up anything about a relationship so don't say a word to her about wanting to be in one. Let her bring that up to you. What happened to your other girls? A seasoned vet wouldn't start getting a fever for one girl like this. Buck up or she's gonna fly when you come on too strong. No more all day hang outs.
 
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