"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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the worst lie a girl has ever told you...

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chance

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just thought it would be fun to hear the dumb lies you've heard from girls. post them here:

here's one from me:

me:
call my number im trying to see if my phone is still broken.

her:
i dont know you though im not giving you my number

me:
set it on private then

her:
i dont know how. sorry.


some girls are idiots. i actually prefer when they say: "i dont like you go away" instead of lame lies.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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War Against Betaism

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"I'll call you back later" which they NEVER EVER EVER do. I've actually called a girl out on this one time and told her "You're not gonna call back," and just hanged up without letting her respond.
 
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chance

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last moment before meeting up:

"hey sorry i cant go today my friend is sick and im looking after her." wtf?
 
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Mine was when the girl was 24 y.o

I am innocent virgin who has never gone out before in my life.

Only guy that is allowed to touch me is my brother and he always plays with my knees at night.

I have never let a guy touch me before in my life.

I don't where babies come from.

Later when a friend of mine did her, he asked her, you don't seem like a virgin. She told him that her brother "who is a doctor" did a pap smear on her that is why she is not a virgin anymore.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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"Yes, I'm on birth control."

Then, 45 seconds after I shoot my load into her: "I'm sorry, I kinda lied, I'm not really on the pill."

B---- then made ME pay for the Plan B pill, but I didn't fight her on it 'cause it sure as s--- beats 18 years of child support.
 
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"I really wanted to hang out but I promised my friends I would hang out with them tonight"
The week before that had been like "my moms not letting me go out tonight." Every week i would ask and she would think of some terrible excuse as to why she cant hang out.


Ill give a little sucess story that came from this. Shortly after she said this to me I stumbled apon this site(like a week or so later) and I found the balls to next my onitis of 3 years after reading some articles on here. Only 3 months later her friend calls telling me she is sick for me and wants me back.

The site changed the way I held myself and acted and she obviously noticed.

Now we have been dating for about 6 months and she has yet to flake on me.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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oh... why dont you spend your time working on your game insteading of wasting it on wondering about stupid crap.
 
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john paul

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Why waste your time telling us this is stupid crap?

Oh nevermind your completely right. Anything that isnt improving our game is a waste of time.

You have a great view on life.

Stop spending time on this site because you obviously know everything there is to know
 
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