"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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the worst lie a girl has ever told you...

chance

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just thought it would be fun to hear the dumb lies you've heard from girls. post them here:

here's one from me:

me:
call my number im trying to see if my phone is still broken.

her:
i dont know you though im not giving you my number

me:
set it on private then

her:
i dont know how. sorry.


some girls are idiots. i actually prefer when they say: "i dont like you go away" instead of lame lies.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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War Against Betaism

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"I'll call you back later" which they NEVER EVER EVER do. I've actually called a girl out on this one time and told her "You're not gonna call back," and just hanged up without letting her respond.
 

chance

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last moment before meeting up:

"hey sorry i cant go today my friend is sick and im looking after her." wtf?
 

vonbock

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Mine was when the girl was 24 y.o

I am innocent virgin who has never gone out before in my life.

Only guy that is allowed to touch me is my brother and he always plays with my knees at night.

I have never let a guy touch me before in my life.

I don't where babies come from.

Later when a friend of mine did her, he asked her, you don't seem like a virgin. She told him that her brother "who is a doctor" did a pap smear on her that is why she is not a virgin anymore.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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AKA FLEX

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"Yes, I'm on birth control."

Then, 45 seconds after I shoot my load into her: "I'm sorry, I kinda lied, I'm not really on the pill."

B---- then made ME pay for the Plan B pill, but I didn't fight her on it 'cause it sure as s--- beats 18 years of child support.
 

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"I really wanted to hang out but I promised my friends I would hang out with them tonight"
The week before that had been like "my moms not letting me go out tonight." Every week i would ask and she would think of some terrible excuse as to why she cant hang out.


Ill give a little sucess story that came from this. Shortly after she said this to me I stumbled apon this site(like a week or so later) and I found the balls to next my onitis of 3 years after reading some articles on here. Only 3 months later her friend calls telling me she is sick for me and wants me back.

The site changed the way I held myself and acted and she obviously noticed.

Now we have been dating for about 6 months and she has yet to flake on me.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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yama600rr

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oh... why dont you spend your time working on your game insteading of wasting it on wondering about stupid crap.
 

john paul

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Why waste your time telling us this is stupid crap?

Oh nevermind your completely right. Anything that isnt improving our game is a waste of time.

You have a great view on life.

Stop spending time on this site because you obviously know everything there is to know
 
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