"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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So my friend and on were on the topic of women and he was criticizing my dj skills. I normally do quite a bit of flirting with girls I just meet, and if i'm on the dance floor i'll grind with girls I dont know. So he decided to give me a piece of advice, which consquencly turned out to be the worst advice hes ever given me on chics, which surpised me cuz hes somthin close to a natural player. Hes said "dude you need to slow down a bit, you should get to know chics and become thier friends before you try to start a relationship" and I was just like lol, thats not how it works. . .

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Forget the worst advise - here is the BEST advise you will ever get - 99 percent of the population out there doesn't know jack squat about anything and everything. The only way to learn anything usefull is to go out and seak it yourself. :cool:
 
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Dude, don't ever let anyone slow your roll. If making friends with women first works for him fine, but if what ever you are doing is working for you, why stop. Don't succumb to peer pressure unless you want to be just like everyone else.
 
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Originally posted by Kourt
So my friend and on were on the topic of women and he was criticizing my dj skills. I normally do quite a bit of flirting with girls I just meet, and if i'm on the dance floor i'll grind with girls I dont know. So he decided to give me a piece of advice, which consquencly turned out to be the worst advice hes ever given me on chics, which surpised me cuz hes somthin close to a natural player. Hes said "dude you need to slow down a bit, you should get to know chics and become thier friends before you try to start a relationship" and I was just like lol, thats not how it works. . .

feel free to subit ur worst advice ever given
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Next time you get a chance to talk to this guy ask him the following question: Can you honestly tell me that when you're dancing or flirting with a girl you're thinking,

" Wow, this chick has great relationship potential!"?

Yeah. Sure. :rolleyes:

All's fair in love and war so either he believes this bs, or he's trying to limit the competition. Hmmmmm.

I say grind 'em like they're parmesan cheese. :D

-CyranoDeBergerac
 
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