"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Kourt

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So my friend and on were on the topic of women and he was criticizing my dj skills. I normally do quite a bit of flirting with girls I just meet, and if i'm on the dance floor i'll grind with girls I dont know. So he decided to give me a piece of advice, which consquencly turned out to be the worst advice hes ever given me on chics, which surpised me cuz hes somthin close to a natural player. Hes said "dude you need to slow down a bit, you should get to know chics and become thier friends before you try to start a relationship" and I was just like lol, thats not how it works. . .

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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myfriendblu

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Forget the worst advise - here is the BEST advise you will ever get - 99 percent of the population out there doesn't know jack squat about anything and everything. The only way to learn anything usefull is to go out and seak it yourself. :cool:
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Dude, don't ever let anyone slow your roll. If making friends with women first works for him fine, but if what ever you are doing is working for you, why stop. Don't succumb to peer pressure unless you want to be just like everyone else.
 

CyranoDeBergerac

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Originally posted by Kourt
So my friend and on were on the topic of women and he was criticizing my dj skills. I normally do quite a bit of flirting with girls I just meet, and if i'm on the dance floor i'll grind with girls I dont know. So he decided to give me a piece of advice, which consquencly turned out to be the worst advice hes ever given me on chics, which surpised me cuz hes somthin close to a natural player. Hes said "dude you need to slow down a bit, you should get to know chics and become thier friends before you try to start a relationship" and I was just like lol, thats not how it works. . .

feel free to subit ur worst advice ever given
Next time you get a chance to talk to this guy ask him the following question: Can you honestly tell me that when you're dancing or flirting with a girl you're thinking,

" Wow, this chick has great relationship potential!"?

Yeah. Sure. :rolleyes:

All's fair in love and war so either he believes this bs, or he's trying to limit the competition. Hmmmmm.

I say grind 'em like they're parmesan cheese. :D

-CyranoDeBergerac
 
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